10-18-2011, 01:43 PM
pellaz Wrote:-the sole mate stuff is bunk
-sex is going to happen, how is this a bad thing.
you think you must have a sole mate to have a relationship your wasting your time. this person you met and or your self are likely going to change in only a moderate amount of time. at best your spouse is your best friend but most important it is someone you love. you put your interest second to the needs of the relationship.
much has been said how gay men are promiscuous. but look at the saturation with straight sex. guys, we have some catching up to do.
Sorry to butt in, but here is a typical case where spelling does make all the difference. I'm taking you mean soul mate, as in someone who will share life with you on a physical and spiritual level... Someone's SOLE mate, would be their ONLY mate.
Often a SOUL mate is the SOLE mate too....
SOUL = spirit
SOLE = unique, only