Okay I need to vent a bit on what my dad says whenever he hears about a hot female celebrity that came out as lesbian. He always says '' what a waste'' It pisses me off when he says things like that cause it's not like she chose to be lesbian she just chose to come out. Did any of you eclver have someone say something like that? It say something that irked you? Sorry for the rant guys I just needed to get that of my chest.
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People like dads (and mums, and brothers and sisters, and aunts and uncles) often say stupid things, things that don't necessarily mean much. They just feel they need to make a comment. Think of it this way, it's not as if your dad would ever have stood a chance with whichever artist you were referring to... so, a waste??? Who for, really? Definitely not him.
I think your answer to that remark ("What a waste!") could be, next time: "On the contrary, dad, she's not wasting her love on someone who doesn't deserve it. Bravo her!!"
I take it though that you have not made your sexuality known to your father yet, and that you think he'd disapprove? Most parents will be happy if you are happy, so he needs to make that connection. My child is gay, bisexual, straight, and I want him / her to be happy, and thrive: that's what counts or what ought to count.
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hello,
I find that people who are like this are the most shallow of people... Next time he says that ask him if that means your a waste3 to some men in this world... See what his reaction would be then and might make him think if it comes to his own daughter
Kindest regards
zeon x
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Good luck then when you need to come out, Magenta...
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