I'm so pissed off right now I just need to get this all out! So please everyone just bear with me!!

I was doing so good today. I had made up my mind that no matter what I was going to focus on moving forward, getting out of this marriage I should have never gotten into in the first place, and spending the rest of my life with the guy I have fallen head over heels with.

Was spending some great quality time with my kids and stopped by my wifes place of work and all hell broke loose! She started in on how this musical I'm in has consumed so much of my life and how it had caused us not to be able to do anything as a family all summer long. I finally had enough and said I was sorry that I had screwed up everyone's life and I walked off leaving the kids standing there with her.

She followed me and started in again, this time using the kids, in particular my youngest son, saying he was upset and asking him things like are you scared? Right there in the middle of the store! Then when I get home I notice a post form her on Facebook about how she does't know what normal is anymore. I know that was a jab at me!

I'm just so sick of these mind games she's playing on me!

The lesbian country singer Chely Wright just put out a documentary in June about her rise to fame and her being the first country singer to come out of the closet. I watched the film and cant say enough good things about it. I would highly recommend it.

This interesting page from ThinkProgress tells an unusual story about how the promotion of human rights is the way to curbing the spread of AIDS (and probably other things too)
http://thinkprogress.org/lgbt/2012/07/11...d-the-law/

the pharmaceutical company GlaxoSmithKline (GSK) was pushing through non-FDA approved drugs. the drug Paxil was used to treat depression in children even though it was not properly tested for it and caused some kids to become suicidal. GSK even bribed doctors to push through an untested drug to treat diabetes. its upsetting that they get away with paying 3 billion and no one goes to jail.:mad:

http://abcnews.go.com/Blotter/pharma-gia..._ztE_U6yr1

Recently a group of Gays from Bermuda, not including myself ofcourse for personal reasons, have gone over to the UK and are trying to force Bermuda government and law, into making discrimination of Gays an illegal act.

Because, although it's now legal here to be Gay [1994 - one year after I was born], it's also legal for a Gay person to be hit over the head with a bottle or jumped and harrased. It's seen as Gay-Bashing technically, but in the eyes of the law, it's just violence.

With the UK pride coming up[I think it is], Bermudian Gays want to be able to celebrate it as well.

Here's alittle history and background information on us, Homosexuality-wise.

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Law regarding same-sex sexual activity
Prior to 1994, gay male sexual conduct were punishable by up to ten years imprisonment. Following the passing of the Stubbs Bill in that year, gay male sexual conduct was legalised in Bermuda, but with a higher age of consent for gay male sexual conduct at 18, than the age of consent of 16 for heterosexual and lesbian sexual conduct.

Gender identity/expression
There is no legal recognition of "gender identity", and thus, by omission, no protection from discrimination. The ability of persons to express their gender identity is often difficult; for example, in 2006, the government attempted to ban Mark Anderson, also known as the drag queen "Queen of Bermuda" Sybil, from participating in a parade, stating that he contradicted local mores and sensitivities. In mid-2009 it was announced that gay Bermudians would be participating in Pride London, with an estimated 30 LGBT London residents from Bermuda marching, and that it hoped to follow in Anderson's footsteps and participate in a future Bermuda Day parade; gay Bermudians doubted, however, that there would be large-scale participation due to fears of repercussions against their families.

Recognition of same-sex relationships
There is no official recognition of same-sex couples. In 2004, the government made it clear that same-sex civil unions, much less same-sex marriage, would not be considered.

Socially, the situation is hard enough that some gay residents have chosen to emigrate, particularly to London in the United Kingdom (of which Bermudians are citizens), in order to be able to openly be in same-sex relationships. One such emigrant noted that gay relationships have to essentially be secret, with partners introduced only as "friends" and relationships between two Bermudians as being very difficult.

An opinion poll in July 2010 showed only 27% in favour of same-sex marriage and 51% against.

Discrimination protections
Discrimination on the grounds of sexual orientation is legal; despite repeated recommendations by Bermuda's Human Rights Commission that the government change this. In late 2004, the Government of Bermuda promised to amend the Human Rights Act to cover sexual orientation,—but by late 2005 the matter appeared to have been quietly dropped, until the following year. In 2006, an amendment to the Human Rights Act was proposed in the House of Assembly of Bermuda, but the Parliament of Bermuda refused to even discuss the issue. In April 2007 an activist group called "Two Words and a Comma" was formed to pressure the government of Bermuda into amending the act. Following his sudden resignation from Cabinet in 2009, former Culture Minister Dale Butler raised the issue of the amendment, saying that he had intended to table an amended Human Rights Bill in Fall 2009, but that it was now the responsibility of new Culture Minister Neletha Butterfield to re-table to do so; Butterfield responded that she was still being apprised of the workings of the Ministry and so could not comment on future plans. In November of that year, following a mention in the annual speech from the throne that the Human Rights Act was to be amended, a rumour circulated that this would include protection for gays. Premier Brown's press secretary appeared to confirm the rumour, but it was refuted by both the Human Rights Commission and Minister Butterfield, who commented that a sexual orientation clause was still under investigation.

Bermudians have tried to appeal to the Parliament of the United Kingdom regarding LGBT discrimination, prompting the Foreign Affairs Committee to recommend that the British government should take steps to extend human rights in the British overseas territories (BOT), for which the UK is ultimately responsible. Bermuda's human rights in general do not have a favourable reputation; In mid-2008, Bermuda was the only BOT to refuse to join a four-year human rights initiative organised by the Commonwealth Foundation.

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So as you can see, there's been a long history and struggle with Gay rights here. Not so much for Lesbians or any other group, but primarily just Gay Men.

And though I won't defend it, Bermuda is my home and I love it dearly and is currently undergoing changes, however slowly, so it's not as bad as it probably looks on paper... or screen mile:, but I still wish it could be better.

And last night on the News, there was some protesters in London, trying to get the Government there, to again, force Bermudian government into atleast making discrimination an illegal act and to be more progressive, as we are one of the most advanced Islands, especially of the British Commonwealth.

The Royal Gazette - An article on Gay Rights... some of the comments can be alittle harsh...

Bermuda LGBT Group .



This is Ms. Sybil, our loudest Gay voice, for many years now.




The part that's really sad for me, is that this is my home... I don't want to just flee to some other country. I love it here, I was born, raised and have grown up here.

Normally, I don't like to take a stand for a cause, because I am not a Martyr, I'm not agressive enough or vengeful, but for my home, is an exception I'm willing to make. mile: .

I hope this didn't dampen anyones day. Just thought I'd share.
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And if so, how much is it because of the eye candy? And if so, did it live up to your expectations?

I don't care what your gender and orientation is, I'm curious what everybody has to say on this.

And just curious...anyone go to see the Avengers more than once simply because (or in large part because) of the hot guys serving as eye candy?

Thanks mile:

i watched the first two episodes of The Killing, thought it to be a very good tv police murder misery thingy.

What's the worst horror movie you every seen?

Now it appears that Turing's death by suicide was maybe a fabrication, because it fitted the police at the time...
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/science-environment-18562183

The hell is wrong with me? It's almost midnight and I keep watching this clip over and over and over balling my eyes out. Anyone else remember this flick? The way this intro is shot along with the music encapsulates the high school feeling so well.