03-02-2014, 02:09 PM
I can definitely agree with the above posters, that he fantasizes with a submissive sexual role, without him actually wanting to be a bottom.
Now there's 2 problems to solve here:
1.- Even while justified, the "accidental discovery" and the further investigation will not be taken well. That needs to be adressed. Cause it puts a dent in the trust.
2.- More than what he writes in this sites, why is he having such conversations with these people while being with you? Granted, it's not exactly cheating, but it certainly is not good.
Bth these subject need to be adressed. Markedly: he needs to be honest about what exactly is he looking for sexually speaking? And what can you do to fulfill hid needs?
At the same time you need to adress your needs, and also (I assume) stopping what he's doing online.
If you can reach a compromise you can keep this relationship
Now there's 2 problems to solve here:
1.- Even while justified, the "accidental discovery" and the further investigation will not be taken well. That needs to be adressed. Cause it puts a dent in the trust.
2.- More than what he writes in this sites, why is he having such conversations with these people while being with you? Granted, it's not exactly cheating, but it certainly is not good.
Bth these subject need to be adressed. Markedly: he needs to be honest about what exactly is he looking for sexually speaking? And what can you do to fulfill hid needs?
At the same time you need to adress your needs, and also (I assume) stopping what he's doing online.
If you can reach a compromise you can keep this relationship
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