09-17-2016, 03:03 PM
Sorry to hear it didn't go well, and he wasn't listening to what your concerns were. The fact was that it probably wasn't the right time to discuss this after declining sex. Why is it not possible to initiate a different kind of sex than anal? He still sounds very needy. Or maybe he has other issues, which he is not being honest or open about. It's not always easy to know what's going on in some other person's mind. Just remind him that you love him, in the meantime?