10-30-2016, 02:06 PM
When I was single..I was a slut...meaning..I like guys ALOT...and I wanted to have sex with as many as I could....and I did.
I had rules though..alot of them....
...and if a guy was with another guy in any capacity..we are NOT having sex. I sent a few home when they told me...it is a huge turn off to me....
I am a very loyal guy so it offends me that they would even think of having sex with me when they already are committed to another guy....I put myself in the other guys's shoes...
My other rules...no virgins..no compliments on my looks unless you already know me and like who I am.....no strings...gotta know the difference between love and lust....honest guys move to the front of the line please....
The thing is..when you work in a gay bar..you get to see men...lots of men..every night...so I had probably alot more opportunity to go out with guys...
The other thing that I did would make alot of guys mad but it was the perfect repellent to avoid bullshit guys....
I would say NO DATE UNTIL WE FUCK...because I don't know if I like you enough to go on a date with you until we fuck...and after you have seen a guy cum and naked and sweaty and hot..it is a much nicer date because you avoid the awkwardness and lies and bullshit ...and I hate pretend or staged romance.... I never lead a guy on and I like things to be what they are....I also hate having to accommodate other people's expectations because I can't breathe when that happens......
I had alot of critics...but I have had a pretty successful sex life and a pretty successful 30 year relationship so I think I played my cards right....
I had rules though..alot of them....
...and if a guy was with another guy in any capacity..we are NOT having sex. I sent a few home when they told me...it is a huge turn off to me....
I am a very loyal guy so it offends me that they would even think of having sex with me when they already are committed to another guy....I put myself in the other guys's shoes...
My other rules...no virgins..no compliments on my looks unless you already know me and like who I am.....no strings...gotta know the difference between love and lust....honest guys move to the front of the line please....
The thing is..when you work in a gay bar..you get to see men...lots of men..every night...so I had probably alot more opportunity to go out with guys...
The other thing that I did would make alot of guys mad but it was the perfect repellent to avoid bullshit guys....
I would say NO DATE UNTIL WE FUCK...because I don't know if I like you enough to go on a date with you until we fuck...and after you have seen a guy cum and naked and sweaty and hot..it is a much nicer date because you avoid the awkwardness and lies and bullshit ...and I hate pretend or staged romance.... I never lead a guy on and I like things to be what they are....I also hate having to accommodate other people's expectations because I can't breathe when that happens......
I had alot of critics...but I have had a pretty successful sex life and a pretty successful 30 year relationship so I think I played my cards right....
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