08-06-2020, 05:30 PM
Very sorry to read about your situation. You sound very sad that this has happened.
I'm going with the replies you have already received. The big gesture sounds like a bad idea. Try not to dwell on that one. Like you, I haven't seen my partner since March either. We used to chat every day, but I guess that after eighteen years together that is not quite so pressing. Most other years he would have come to England by now so that we can spend six or seven weeks together. That's not going to happen when our respective countries have different rules.
I know it's hard when a relationship moves at different speeds for the people involved, but this sounds as though it may have run its course.
Cry all you need to and accept some virtual hugs.
Better luck next time.
I'm going with the replies you have already received. The big gesture sounds like a bad idea. Try not to dwell on that one. Like you, I haven't seen my partner since March either. We used to chat every day, but I guess that after eighteen years together that is not quite so pressing. Most other years he would have come to England by now so that we can spend six or seven weeks together. That's not going to happen when our respective countries have different rules.
I know it's hard when a relationship moves at different speeds for the people involved, but this sounds as though it may have run its course.
Cry all you need to and accept some virtual hugs.
Better luck next time.