Polyamory (loving more than one but not cheating)

[JRiver]

Is anyone in here currently involved in multiple simultaneous loverly relationships?

[zeon]

Hello,
What happens if you are in a 4 way relationship and one decides enough is enough and wants to leave... Do the others sit there and cry themselves to sleep or something like bereavement??? I know 1 2 1 do but what about 1 2 4?

[JRiver]

Hello,
What happens if you are in a 4 way relationship and one decides enough is enough and wants to leave... Do the others sit there and cry themselves to sleep or something like bereavement???

In my experience, when love goes sour with one of my loves when I have more than one partner in love, it's just as if it were to go sour when I had but one partner. It hurts. A lot. I suspect this is the norm. So, yeah, I suppose the remaining three might cry and grieve if they lost one of their loves. Love is love is love, after all. No matter how many are involved and in what sort of ways.