I love bareback sex

[chillout100]

I'm with you on that. Bareback videos are the best!

[monk]

. . . no matter how committed you are to a relationship how can you ever really know for sure that your partner is, too?

If you find the right man, no problem.

[myapple]

WOAH! Well it's your life, so do as you please. I just hate that you're going around spreading your legs to men without wanting to protect yourself from all kinds of infections and diseases. I hate even more that so many men are okay with you wanting to bareback. I hope you're at least cleaning yourself before having anal intercourse.

[TomStatic]

I find it weird that someone would get arrosed by knowing u had that disease
, i deffnetly would not wanan risk myself if i knew the person had it
at the end of the day sex to me is not important but getting a long term diesase is
i have only ever been with guys that i knew for a few months b4 i had sex with em and it was protected
i am lucky now that me and my bf have been tested and can do whatever we like to one another

[Dj1990]

I would never do it except maybe if I had a boyfriend who I've known for years and trust him that he is only sleeping with me.
If I did get AIDS though because he cheated on me...well probably would just murder him..might as well.

[mrk2010]

Well really you just have to think aswell "what about in the straight community?" how do they deal with it? Really it's the same! The difference is two men together and two women can't get pregnant together if they have sex as where a straight couple can but they are still at risk from std's even if the woman is on the pill. While I'm not an advocate for bareback sex the main thing that comes to mind is use some common sense. if you are in a long term loving relationship, why not have unprotected sex? Straight couples who are married do it. I'm sorry but there is a certain slag stigma about being gay and all of this HIV business tbh there's about the same amount of chance as a straight person having unprotected sex and getting HIV than a gay person. Like I said before wrap your tool if you are gonna have one offs but in a long term relationship why not?

[Jay125]

And there's "Bugchasing" as well.....

I only found out about this practice recently and was quite shocked.

[BobInTampa]

My feelings are pretty clear on this issue - as long as we're talking about 2 consenting adults, both of whom know the risks associated with barebacking, and both agree to engage in unsafe sex - then they are entering into something fully aware.

What bothers me is guys who engage in bareback sex, don't get tested, don't care to get tested and continue to have unprotected sex with random partners. Now, you can argue that anyone who lets a guy bareback him MUST know that his partner is putting him at great risk - but i still belive firmly that having a 1 minute conversation prior to sex makes a big difference.

[Dean]

this is always a boundary. when you do not know the other guy you are making out you feel pleasure? no.

hiv phobia is also horrifying even try with condom.

but condom is also not that convenient especially the size is wrong.

yea, what can we do. just do not have sex that's it.

[BeautifulBlue]

If you have trouble getting aroused with guys with condoms, have you considered maybe having your boyfriend/partner use a different kind of condoms? There's ribbed, nubbed, lubed, flavored (which doesn't really help for your ass, I know)--you've got options.

HIV is a horrible disease. I would hate to see someone from here get it just because they didn't like the feeling of not using a condom.