I love bareback sex

[BeautifulBlue]

Ahh...thanks for the info! Def get your next test done! I am due for round three (after the breakup/checkup shit)...all good with the first two!

Yup. He DID, however, say that if you have open sores in your mouths (cuts, canker sores, etc.,) HIV can get into them and infect you, but I'm under the assumption that most everyone knew that.

Glad to hear your first two went well! That's awesome! <3

[Dylannihilation]

[COLOR="Purple"]One of my good friends had the same idea...he loved having unprotected sex and would brush away our concerns. He never thought that he'd catch anything and said he was willing to risk it.

He found out a few years ago that he's positive and his life has never been the same. Please be careful! People refuse to TOUCH him because of it, and he's lost so much of himself. I know that this probably won't make a difference, but please think about it at the very least! He has to live with this for the rest of his life...it will never go away. It's not a game, it's his life. No matter what, he'll never be able to go back and change it. Please be careful.[/COLOR]

[LatinCoffee]

This is a pretty intense convo. Obviously you're not going to take anyone's advice, so when it happens, don't say you weren't warned. But you're a big boy; you know what you're risking. We've all made bad choices, myself included. Some of us were lucky, others weren't. You're playing with your life and they'll be the first to tell you that. As long as you're in a committed relationship, you should be ok. If you stray, and get the bug, how will that change your sex life? You like it now, but will you be able to get any after?

Agreed. I hope that the OP gets tested and loves himself too much to kill himself through any disese or even infect his partner.

[princealbertofb]

One of my good friends had the same idea...he loved having unprotected sex and would brush away our concerns. He never thought that he'd catch anything and said he was willing to risk it.

He found out a few years ago that he's positive and his life has never been the same. Please be careful! People refuse to TOUCH him because of it, and he's lost so much of himself. I know that this probably won't make a difference, but please think about it at the very least! He has to live with this for the rest of his life...it will never go away. It's not a game, it's his life. No matter what, he'll never be able to go back and change it. Please be careful.

Maybe people should equate becoming HIV positive with being limbless, or something like that. Would they, if they had the choice, deliberately choose to lose an arm or a leg? Well being HIV positive is like losing a part of yourself. Well put, Dylan!!!

[ESLteacher]

I understand you. I am a top but I go limp every time that I put on a condom, so I just rarely have sex.