a stupid problem again

[Matty71]

it's not that thign dude , i don;t feel comfortable with a dude that everyoen is staring at ... i hate being in the center of attention , that is my real problem... And the wine part? Give a break , i like wine that doesn;t mean i get drunk >.<' So i guess i should go with him ... Anyway jsut wantd you to know the problem is not the wine and that i am cruel , it;s like i hate being in center of atention

I understand your feelings and what you are saying.

I agree with your initial take on the situation; These are your feelings and should remain true to your feelings.

I, too, hate being the center of attention.

[princealbertofb]

Good luck Mihai.... hope you make at least one very good friend.

[zeon]

Really, this is your problem - to accept a date with a guy whose only flaw is he has muscles?

Your not a jerk. Your an ass-hat.

What is an ass-hat:
One whose head is so far up their rear end it could pass for a hat; used to describe a person who is stubborn, cruel, or otherwise unpleasant to be around.

You are stubborn, in that you set this silly limitation on men. Cruel, in that with a world of men who are dying to meet other men half as willing to date them as this guy is with you, you have to 'rant' about your 'problem'.

Unpleasant to be around because lets face it, who wants to be around an asshat who's problem is if he should date a guy with muscle or not because he has muscle.

Here is a suggestion: Stop drinking.

Seriously, every 'rant' you have had thus far includes mentioning that you went out to drink wine. Obviously if you are such a dick its the wine, not you...

its posts like this that make aunty love you bowyn xx

now onto the intitial thread can i ask r u a sex god because every thread people are coming onto you... If you dont want them send them our way we wont mind opr least aunty wont

[mihai]

Zeon i am not a sex god. The atraction thingy is simple = ignore the one who thinks he is the best, he will come your way. I have nothing else to say

[Mr. Not So Lonely]

Just be you and follow your heart but use your head at the same time