My throat hurts

[Counselor]

After oral. Am I doing it wrong?

[ThatRobGuy]

Not to be too frank, but is the guy's dick slamming against the back of your throat with each downward motion? If so, just don't go quite so deep.

[Bing1025]

Ask the guy to be gentle, lol

[Counselor]

No, he's usually sitting, everything is up to me, I just wondered if I should adjust my method.

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Are talking deep throating? If so then there are techniques that one can use to reduce the after effects. But lets face facts, stuffing a man's dick down the throat is not really what the throat was designed to do, there are reasons why we chew our food before we swallow. Can't actually do that with a man's dick.

Well you can, but most men start screaming and carrying on like its the end of the world when you seriously start chewing on their dick.

If you are not deep throating or attempting to and getting a sore throat, then something else is up. Allergy to semen/precum comes to mind, Although rare there are cases where other's semen causes allergic reactions.

[Counselor]

Let's say I'm reasonably certain I'm not allergic, lol. Maybe I am deep-throating and don't realize it, I figured it was just excess friction causing irritation. Is this something I can get used to? Porn stars don't seem to complain so much...

[Bowyn Aerrow]

Let's say I'm reasonably certain I'm not allergic, lol. Maybe I am deep-throating and don't realize it, I figured it was just excess friction causing irritation. Is this something I can get used to? Porn stars don't seem to complain so much...

Two things porn stars do that you don't do.

1. Ask permission to quote a living person.

2. Practice - lots and lots of practice. Swallowing many dicks. Practice makes perfect.

Are you deep throating? Are you taking every last inch of dick, or trying too? If so, you are deep throating.

One way to oblige all of that meat is to keep on swallowing, swallow, swallow swallow as the dick slides in. Not only will that make it easier for it to slide down your throat, it also helps to ease the gag reflex and its really a wonderful experience for him - sort of a milking sensation that goes beyond merely sucking.

Of course the more you do it the more used to it you will get.

[Counselor]

I guess I have been deep throating, I didn't know the difference. I just know that after a certain point, I couldn't breathe.

[rover330]

deep throating is actually having a dick go a little past your throat into your esophagas... it's something that took me a while to learn. guess I would say don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable, it's supposed to be a pleasureable experience for both parties. :-)

hopefully you have a partner who will help you take it at your own pace. you should still be able to breathe through your nose, but it's not something one can do for very long, at least I can't. not everyone is hung enough where it would even go that far down.