Perfect Husband

[spotysocks]

Or perfect man if you dont think of getting married.

What attributes to you give to the perfect husband?
And who would that be for you?

[Shadow]

The perfect husband should have eyes only for you. He should be somebody that makes your heart beat that little bit faster every time you see him ... somebody that you know loves you completely, as you are, and with each and every breath.

His love and faith and trust in you should be unshakable, and you should never have any "what if's" when you're with him ...

The perfect man is also subjective, so the perfect man for me won't be the perfect man for you for example - but I think, like falling in love, you know when you've found "the one" for you ...

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xx

!?!?! Shadow !?!?!

[marshlander]

... The perfect man is also subjective, so the perfect man for me won't be the perfect man for you ...

Good. There should be enough to go round then?

[marshlander]

The perfect man (that is my perfect man) in no special order of merit will be the man who

• loves me (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• wants me to love him (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• looks a bit like princealbertofb
  
• cares about others (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is honourable in all his dealings (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is interesting (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is curious about the world around him (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is a gentleman (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is not afraid to stand up for what he believes in (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is a fascinating conversationalist (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• likes people (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is brave enough to enjoy silence (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is advenurous in the kitchen (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is even more exciting in the bedroom (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• does not need me to be his conjoined twin (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is loyal (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• recognises that I sometimes need to have time to deal with things my own way (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is there to hold me when he knows he can't do anything else during my dark times (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• wants to tell me all about his day (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is the first person with whom I want to share any news good or bad (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• loves to be hugged (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• trusts me without question (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• I can trust without even being able to think of a question (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• has a lively sense of humour (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• makes me smile all the way through (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• brings tears to my eyes when I think about why I love him so much (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• laughs at my jokes (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• makes me feel better about myself (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• makes me proud every time he achieves something special (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is genuinely pleased when I do something well (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• can laugh at himself (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• knows when to ignore my mistakes (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• loves music (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is tactile (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is cultured (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• dances like an angel (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is not afraid to live slightly chaotically (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• stimulates me intellectually (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is a vegetarian (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• doesn't drink (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• doesn't smoke (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• stays informed (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• introduces me to new art, music, film, dance, theatre (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• enjoys snuggling up on the sofa (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• accepts my previous relationships as part of what makes me who I am (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is willing to share all aspects of his life with me (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is able to maintain perspective under trying circumstances (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• loves good ice cream (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• has an interesting (ie verging on the eccentric ) and welcoming family (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• still wants to be with me, even after many years (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• I want to be with, even after many years (a bit like princealbertofb)

I'm not a demanding man, but these qualities came most readily to mind.

Now where may I find such a paragon ...

[Wilem]

The perfect man (that is my perfect man) in no special order of merit will be the man who

• loves me (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• wants me to love him (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• looks a bit like princealbertofb
  
• cares about others (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is honourable in all his dealings (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is interesting (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is curious about the world around him (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is a gentleman (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is not afraid to stand up for what he believes in (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is a fascinating conversationalist (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• likes people (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is brave enough to enjoy silence (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is advenurous in the kitchen (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is even more exciting in the bedroom (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• does not need me to be his conjoined twin (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is loyal (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• recognises that I sometimes need to have time to deal with things my own way (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is there to hold me when he knows he can't do anything else during my dark times (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• wants to tell me all about his day (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is the first person with whom I want to share any news good or bad (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• loves to be hugged (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• trusts me without question (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• I can trust without even being able to think of a question (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• has a lively sense of humour (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• makes me smile all the way through (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• brings tears to my eyes when I think about why I love him so much (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• laughs at my jokes (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• makes me feel better about myself (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• makes me proud every time he achieves something special (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is genuinely pleased when I do something well (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• can laugh at himself (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• knows when to ignore my mistakes (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• loves music (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is tactile (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is cultured (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• dances like an angel (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is not afraid to live slightly chaotically (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• stimulates me intellectually (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is a vegetarian (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• doesn't drink (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• doesn't smoke (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• stays informed (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• introduces me to new art, music, film, dance, theatre (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• enjoys snuggling up on the sofa (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• accepts my previous relationships as part of what makes me who I am (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is willing to share all aspects of his life with me (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• is able to maintain perspective under trying circumstances (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• loves good ice cream (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• has an interesting (ie verging on the eccentric ) and welcoming family (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• still wants to be with me, even after many years (a bit like princealbertofb)
  
• I want to be with, even after many years (a bit like princealbertofb)

I'm not a demanding man, but these qualities came most readily to mind.

Now where may I find such a paragon ...

Yeah that was so sweet I nearly fell off my twizzly chair...

[princealbertofb]

I just hope you have learnt to copy and paste (a bit like princealbertofb)...
Antigrafw kai kollaw (a bit like princealbertofb)

[Mark]

I dont think id want perfection. It would be boring. :biggrin:

[wouldlikemuscle]

I dont think id want perfection. It would be boring. :biggrin:

I would actually agree with this!!

So the perfect man's perfectness would become his one inperfection. We all need a bit of drama to spice things up! mile:

[Mark]

I would actually agree with this!!

So the perfect man's perfectness would become his one inperfection. We all need a bit of drama to spice things up! mile:

Aha. Hmmm MIKE AGREES WITH ME. ;> -frames

[Dan1089]

Awww...marshlander that was really heatfelt.Just not exactly sure how an angels dances,LOL!Hmmm...what would I want in a boyfriend?This might be a tad shallow but he HAS to be financially stable & generally grounded.Must tolerate my crazy lifestyle.Must be a good cook,something about a naked man in an apron drives me wild.Must be a bit of a homebody.Must be mature.I'm big on looks but he must be "dignified".