spencer Wrote:"and what is your justification?" Oh, you should have told him the real reason :biggrin:
Quote: And yeah 155$ isn't a lot
Not a lot? :eek: WOW, how high fines do you usually have in your country?
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Jay Wrote:Forgot to mention.
I stumbled into Sam quite often these days. He smiled but I avoided him. I make sure to take a separate elevator to be away from him.
But truthfully I miss him as a friend. Sam was the first guy that I made friend with after I joined the company that I'm working with right now. He joined his company few months earlier than me.
Most of his friends that ridiculed me have left the company. Sam was promoted to a higher position but he's alone now. Well Nick is around. But i rarely see him.
Yesterday I had lunch with my colleagues in a shopping mall's food court. Sam sat few tables apart. He ate his his lunch alone.
Last week both of us had our lunch with our colleagues in the same food court. We sat quite close to each other. At one point, Sam just looked at me.
I feel guilty. As much as I want to have him back as friend, I can't. I keep remembering what his friends did. He followed them because well, they are his friends and colleagues.
Maybe I should give him a chance as it wasn't his fault to begin with. Maybe I should volunteer to apologize. I miss him a lot. I'm torn.
Maybe I should mend my relationship with Nick too.
Don't you dare apologise, you did nothing wrong....it was YOU that was wronged, and a real friend would have stepped up and put a stop to what happened to you...WHO exactly did that?
Nick is a collegue, not a friend. Friends look out for each other, step up when required.
An old saying...a friend is someone that will bail you out of police lock-up, a real friend is the one sitting next to you in police lock up.
Nick didn't even bail you out. 
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How am I today. I'm ok today, not a very exciting day. Umm probably going to break up with my boyfriend... Oh well we can still be friends. I realized that I'm not good at keeping in touch with friends and this is not a very good thing and I'ma work on it.
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Kiid Wrote:How am I today. I'm ok today, not a very exciting day. Umm probably going to break up with my boyfriend... Oh well we can still be friends. I realized that I'm not good at keeping in touch with friends and this is not a very good thing and I'ma work on it.
I am sorry to hear that, Kiid. I hope he will take it well...
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For the last few days I have been watching all gay themed movies (not porn) I could find - some for the 10th time... :redface:
Also taking care of chihuahua puppy, looking for new job and waiting for bf to get back home.
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Watermark Wrote:For the last few days I have been watching all gay themed movies (not porn) I could find - some for the 10th time... :redface:
Also taking care of chihuahua puppy, looking for new job and waiting for bf to get back home.
Seems like you've been pretty busy lately  mile: Would you share some movie tips?
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Nick9 Wrote:Seems like you've been pretty busy lately mile: Would you share some movie tips?
Certainly! Heres few I personally like: Latter days, Beautiful thing, Shelter, Prayers for bobby (this movie should have sadness warning tho!), Just a question of love and Redwoods (not happy ending but has its moments).
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ceez Wrote:UUUUUGGGGHHH, I'm nervous, I'm going to a job fair and I'm afraid I'm going to screw something up 
Stay calm and be confident, Ceez. Don't go to the job fair with the highest expectation. Go there and just give your best. If you make a mistake during interview, keep talking.
Good luck, Ceez.
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Dfiant Wrote:Don't you dare apologise, you did nothing wrong....it was YOU that was wronged, and a real friend would have stepped up and put a stop to what happened to you...WHO exactly did that?
Nick is a collegue, not a friend. Friends look out for each other, step up when required.
An old saying...a friend is someone that will bail you out of police lock-up, a real friend is the one sitting next to you in police lock up.
Nick didn't even bail you out.
Okay, Daz. My naive side was showing again, huh?
It was my female friend who work with them that defended and told me about it. According to her, Nick (kind of) asked them not to make fun of me. But to what length, I do not know.
But okay, I got what you were saying. I'll continue to stay away from those guys. But as for Nick, can I still respond to his hello? Because he still says hi to me when we stumble into each other.
Another thing, what if the other guys suddenly say hello? Should I reply their hellos back?
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Really poor. Working overtime is painful.。。lol
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