08-20-2013, 02:49 PM
I am sure you guys have head all this before but here goes,
I have been in a relationship with my bf for the past 4.5 years and we live and own a property together. We are of different ages 24 - 38, but that is not an issue for my BF as he likes the older guys.
About 3 years ago he cheated on me and contracted HepB and almost died as it was rather a severe case. He never told be he cheated on me and I always had my suspicions. It was not until we brought a place together than he told me. I needed time to deal with it as I am a mono person guy with a very big heart. Anyway I forgive him but that will always stick with me.
He likes to get on webcam and flirt its just his thing and I have mentioned that I am not so keen on it all but its what he likes to do.
This year he cheated on me cos lust got the better of him. Since April each month we have been having a disagreement over having a 3some, I am not the type to want it and he is, and calls me old and boring.
Anyway I decided to do it with him sometime this week and had arranged to meet a couple who have a lot of experience, but he could not wait and got talking to a drugged up guy on grindr who wanted to come round last night I was not so keen and he was like a dog on heat, then the guy decided to hookup another guy he was chatting to and invite him too, we had not prepared for this and I was asked to go to the shop for some condoms, but my gut said this was not right and I refused. Now he does not want to have a 3some and is very annoyed with me. I thought I could at least get through this month without any upset but it don't look like I can.
Can someone give some advice please as I am starting to feel a bit frikken crazy.
I have been in a relationship with my bf for the past 4.5 years and we live and own a property together. We are of different ages 24 - 38, but that is not an issue for my BF as he likes the older guys.
About 3 years ago he cheated on me and contracted HepB and almost died as it was rather a severe case. He never told be he cheated on me and I always had my suspicions. It was not until we brought a place together than he told me. I needed time to deal with it as I am a mono person guy with a very big heart. Anyway I forgive him but that will always stick with me.
He likes to get on webcam and flirt its just his thing and I have mentioned that I am not so keen on it all but its what he likes to do.
This year he cheated on me cos lust got the better of him. Since April each month we have been having a disagreement over having a 3some, I am not the type to want it and he is, and calls me old and boring.
Anyway I decided to do it with him sometime this week and had arranged to meet a couple who have a lot of experience, but he could not wait and got talking to a drugged up guy on grindr who wanted to come round last night I was not so keen and he was like a dog on heat, then the guy decided to hookup another guy he was chatting to and invite him too, we had not prepared for this and I was asked to go to the shop for some condoms, but my gut said this was not right and I refused. Now he does not want to have a 3some and is very annoyed with me. I thought I could at least get through this month without any upset but it don't look like I can.
Can someone give some advice please as I am starting to feel a bit frikken crazy.