Straight porn bores me

[nfisher1226]

Nobody can figure it out for you. You have to figure out for yourself whether you are actually interested in being with a man or men in any way.

What I can tell you, is that whatever you figure yourself out to be and whatever you figure out you want, it's going to be ok. There's no reason to be worried about it. Just be you. Don't let anyone convince you to act straight if you're not straight. Don't let anyone convince you to act gay if you're not gay. And don't listen to anyone, gay or straight, who tries to convince you that bisexuality doesn't exist. Nobody can define you except you. And you have a lot of years to figure it out.

One day you'll look back on it and think, "That was a lot easier than I was making it out to be."

[TonyAndonuts]

A lot of you are saying I should figure it out myself and no one can really decide for me but me. I totally get that, but I just don't want to live in denial and have something bad end up happening later in life or something. Since I posted this, I'm still watching gay porn and still getting off to it. But I just keep telling myself "Oh, it's nothing. You're just still tired of straight porn and still need something more edgy and new to excite you, that's all." And to add on to that, I'm actually starting to find some guys in real life attractive too. At my job, I noticed a new employee and my first random thought was "He's kinda cute." And like I said before, I've never been attracted to guys in real life situations before, until now. It makes me think that maybe someone CAN turn gay or bi if they're exposed to it enough. I didn't start looking at gay porn until I decided to learn more about the gay community, and after watching gay porn I'm starting to notice guys in real life. I'm still confused if it means I'm bisexual (I still like girls...) or if my brain is just adjusting to what it's been observing recently or something like that. Is it a phase? Can it even be a phase? I don't know.

[Memby]

but I just don't want to live in denial

Well then, don't!

I didn't figure out I was bi until I was 21 - your age. Learn to accept who you are, embrace it and enjoy it!

[Shiner]

Not wishing to sound flippant but... who cares? Just embrace yourself and your feelings - you'll be much happier for it, I guarantee.

This.

I watch straight, gay, trans and etc porn and they are all boring to me. I know what I like in real life and porn is just porn.

I still prefer cartoon stuff, with a good storyline. I guess I'm more like a woman that I want that mental aspect of the porn, not the visual. Yaoi is actually quite good for me needs but I don't know that much about it, only what some female friends send me. As much as I hate it, some of those furry comics can be quite good too in terms of cuteness and romance.