01-05-2014, 04:50 AM
I really like this guy. He knows i like him. I've openly bisexual our whole friendship. 8 years.
Last year we started fooling around. He started begging me for oral, and it took ages to finally happen. Over the course of 2013, it has happened about 8/9 times. We cuddle. We spoon. I am always the big spoon. He receives erections when we are cuddling and he always lets my hands wander. He has had on and off relationships and even asked me once "Am i bi?" and that he only does stuff with me. He has said that "I make him feel good about himself"
December 2013, we have a full 45 minute chat on the phone and he says he is going to stay single. Then he gets a girlfriend. So i decided to up the anti and start flirting with him over BBM and the phone....He started talking to me whilst having a wank haha...
One week later, he is back on my bed, spooning, and getting aroused. She said "Have fun at your friends" and he winked at me Nothing happened, but i made him hard and he let me put my hand in jeans.
Today, he asked me and our friend from Aus about proposing to girls.....I'm paranoid. He has only been dating this girl 2 weeks. Then us 3 were joking in a conversation and it was late, but he totally dismissed my flirting and asked our friend from Aus "Would she F him if he came to visit"
I feel like my advice is ignored. I feel like he does not care about his girlfriend. I am so confused. I really like him and i wanna be his friend in the future but all this does become to much.
People tell me its a classic tale of two guys who like each other but one cannot admit that to himself. Agree?
HELP? Question me if you don't understand.
PS
We don't just drop our pants
He has done stuff to me and its normal occurs from just cuddling.
Last year we started fooling around. He started begging me for oral, and it took ages to finally happen. Over the course of 2013, it has happened about 8/9 times. We cuddle. We spoon. I am always the big spoon. He receives erections when we are cuddling and he always lets my hands wander. He has had on and off relationships and even asked me once "Am i bi?" and that he only does stuff with me. He has said that "I make him feel good about himself"
December 2013, we have a full 45 minute chat on the phone and he says he is going to stay single. Then he gets a girlfriend. So i decided to up the anti and start flirting with him over BBM and the phone....He started talking to me whilst having a wank haha...
One week later, he is back on my bed, spooning, and getting aroused. She said "Have fun at your friends" and he winked at me Nothing happened, but i made him hard and he let me put my hand in jeans.
Today, he asked me and our friend from Aus about proposing to girls.....I'm paranoid. He has only been dating this girl 2 weeks. Then us 3 were joking in a conversation and it was late, but he totally dismissed my flirting and asked our friend from Aus "Would she F him if he came to visit"
I feel like my advice is ignored. I feel like he does not care about his girlfriend. I am so confused. I really like him and i wanna be his friend in the future but all this does become to much.
People tell me its a classic tale of two guys who like each other but one cannot admit that to himself. Agree?
HELP? Question me if you don't understand.
PS
We don't just drop our pants
He has done stuff to me and its normal occurs from just cuddling.