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[joseph]

that is a realy good ideamile: when it was her birthday i made a meal and she liked it lots so if i done it again. and i can say you can read this letter i am going for a little bit!!!i dident now if i will print that or write it which one is better .

[marshlander]

that is a realy good ideamile: when it was her birthday i made a meal and she liked it lots so if i done it again. and i can say you can read this letter i am going for a little bit!!!i dident now if i will print that or write it which one is better .

Hi Joseph,

I really like your letter. Your mum is lucky to have a loving son like you. Personally, I prefer to receive handwritten messages from my children. I think there is something special about the personal touch. I suppose it depends what your writing is like ... As long as she can read it how do you feel about writing it out by hand?

[joseph]

i think handwriting is very nice for a lettermile:

[fjp999]

before I pass out trying to make it upstairs to bed now that it is 4 am here...

I just wanted to say that joseph you should definitely write it out.

I dont know if you can do this but I like to find nice photos in magazines and cut them out. Like for my mom I cut out photos of flowers. I get card paper and paste the flowers on the cover. I practice writing out the letter on the same size of inside card so it looks nice and neat and I dont make any mistake.

Then I carefully write with a good pen - or pencil. I actually like the way pencil looks... I write the message on the inside of the card. If there is some room I might add some small flowers on the inside of the card and also the back.

You probably dont want to include a photo of a handsome guy in the card but if you did you can tell your mom that is your type of guy - JOKE...

good luck joseph...

[joseph]

oh yesmile: that is very good i can make cards and i made them for my mum before and i can make one an the letter inside. i dident do it yet! i was not brave enuof! i am going to do it but i was still trying to get brave enof! i had another idea what i can say i wont to tell her i wont to go to a group an meet poepel. should i do it or not . secretly i get lonley an i think when i gone there i will make frinds there and i hope a boyfrind. then i would be very very very happy mile:

[Star Twister]

oh yesmile: that is very good i can make cards and i made them for my mum before and i can make one an the letter inside. i dident do it yet! i was not brave enuof! i am going to do it but i was still trying to get brave enof! i had another idea what i can say i wont to tell her i wont to go to a group an meet poepel. should i do it or not . secretly i get lonley an i think when i gone there i will make frinds there and i hope a boyfrind. then i would be very very very happy mile:

My advice is....Try and find a group first and meet like minded people, see how that goes and then maybe tell your mum once you get settled in.

The main thing is to feel comfortable within yourself

I wouldn't worry about the boyfriend thing just yet, take it one step at a time and the boyfriend will come, once you join the group hopefully you will meet people like you and can share your experiences that will build your confidence

Much Love

Jamie


xxx

[joseph]

thank you. the only problem is got to tell my mum first becase i dont now how to go to the group on my own.:frown: i get very annoyed when i am stupid like that :frown: it would be better if i wasnt this time! at them groups do you make freinds and boyfrinds sometimes.mile: i wont to tell in the letter about the groups

[marshlander]

thank you. the only problem is got to tell my mum first becase i dont now how to go to the group on my own.:frown: i get very annoyed when i am stupid like that :frown: it would be better if i wasnt this time! at them groups do you make freinds and boyfrinds sometimes.mile: i wont to tell in the letter about the groups

Can your support worker help you find a group?

[Star Twister]

thank you. the only problem is got to tell my mum first becase i dont now how to go to the group on my own.:frown: i get very annoyed when i am stupid like that :frown: it would be better if i wasnt this time! at them groups do you make freinds and boyfrinds sometimes.mile: i wont to tell in the letter about the groups

Your not stupid and don't ever think yourself otherwise.



Like I said, make the friends first, please don't worry about the B/F......


It's better when it comes naturally, than forced


I'm finding it harder to understand your posts Joseph.....
Time for bed me thinks

xxxx


Good night

xxxxxx








*lay off the Red Wine me thinks*

[Star Twister]

Your not stupid and don't ever think yourself otherwise.



Like I said, make the friends first, please don't worry about the B/F......


It's better when it comes naturally, than forced


I'm finding it harder to understand your posts Joseph.....
Time for bed me thinks

xxxx


Good night

xxxxxx








*lay off the Red Wine me thinks*

Joseph may I publicly apologise if the writing in red upset you in any way....... I meant it as a bit of light hearted humour hence what I wrote in Purple

I am sorry hun

Hope you are well


xx