Frustration at not feeling valued

[Undreamt]

That is a load of bull, those people are spitefull upthemselves protentious twats.

Get away from the twink camp side of the gay community and i'm sure you will feel more at home.
It might not be your scene but I would highly recommend checking out a leather or bear bar.
Hell if you have a smart phone try growlr or if you are into kink recon.

If after all that you still think that all gay guys are just superficial and only after looks then I don't know whats your looking at.

[Drkmcnamara]

I have no idea where to even meet new people. I am sorry everyone I am just real depressed right now.

[southbiochem]

I get you be depressed, but it's really not worth it to lose hope on account of a bunch of shallow mother fuckers..

really..

maybe visit Dallas, also somewhat LBGT friendly..

[Drkmcnamara]

Oh and these guys are certainly not friends of mine they are just only guys available where I am at

[Drkmcnamara]

Dallas wouldn't those guys just parrot what I am being told here?

[Sylph]

This topic annoys me.

Because I honestly think everyone is beautiful, even if you have a lazy eye, are overweight, black, white or part dragon, it doesn't mater and why should it?

Okay true, looks can help, because despite popular belief "good looks" are really the most common or average look that people have and humans tend try to stick within that clique, but it doesnt lessen someone who is not within that group.

Infact, genetically speaking, someone outside the group would potentially be better, maybe not in looks but other departments, such as running or the like.


And what you have to realize darling, is that half to maybe the majourity of those shallow or "pretty" persons, are just as, if not more insecure than you might feel or think.

It's called covering up the flaws hunni. All the glitz and glamour is just a sword and shield in the battle field of vanity and social acceptance.

Im no where near gorgeous, neither are half the people here, but you gotta have love for yourself and what you are worth and are capable of, really you do.

I actually hate it in real life when people compliment my physical looks solely. I may joke about it here, but it annoys me, because people should be liked and respected for what's on the inside and not how light or tan their skin is or layered their hair is.

I'm not sure who "they" are, who tell you this or make you believe this, but "they" need to be fucked with a sand papery Dildo and rotate 360 degrees at 25miles per hour.

And I'd like to have you know, porn star quality or looks, are a turn off to some, such as myself, if that's all there is to that person.

*le gasp* A gay guy who likes a guy who can speak mouth words and go five seconds without a selfie? Who woulda thunk it?

Please don't devalue yourself. You mean much more than you don't and more than you know.

I can't be a liar and say it will get better, but if you work at what you want, your chances will exponentially increase at getting it.

What's life worth, if not for the experiences it has to impart to those seeking them?

[southbiochem]

you can't be sure unless you try.

you can always think about moving out of the state..somewhere you'll have a more open gay community

[Drkmcnamara]

Honestly I think a more open gay community will be even worse for me. Like West Hollywood which is supposed to be the most open gay community in the US , this also happens to be the area where these gay guys here take their values from that they are trying to get me to subscribe to as well.

[Sylph]

That is a load of bull, those people are spitefull upthemselves protentious twats.

Get away from the twink camp side of the gay community and i'm sure you will feel more at home.
It might not be your scene but I would highly recommend checking out a leather or bear bar.
Hell if you have a smart phone try growlr or if you are into kink recon.

If after all that you still think that all gay guys are just superficial and only after looks then I don't know whats your looking at.

He never said any thing about Twinks and not all twinks, effeminate, or otherwise stereotypically "shallow" looking or acting people are infact shallow.

Likewise, some people in the leather or bear bars are just as shallow, if not more so, especially given the vehement tendency to bash feminine men, so I don't think trying to say one particular group of gays is better than the other.

Respectfully; that's just bullshit. :3

[Drkmcnamara]

I think I am just gonna have to face the music on this one. There is no way I am ever going to have sex or romance because of the way I am configured as a person. Honestly if what I have is no value to the gay community then there is not much I can do. I am just going to have to accept that this is my life and that is how gay men percieve me as. I am going to have to find someway to live my life without killing myself.