Straight guys and gay sex?

[Virge]

Even one thing I learned in the Marines was that the guys who make the noise and act grossed out about gay sex and say they NEVER would do it were the ones actually doing it. And honest to god at that time in my life I was too dumb to pick up on the signs and I wasn't at all sexually active then.

The reason I bring that up is you might want to survey your straight friends again about their feelings on gay sex... See which one bark the loudest about it. LOL.

[Evan]

Even one thing I learned in the Marines was that the guys who make the noise and act grossed out about gay sex and say they NEVER would do it were the ones actually doing it. And honest to god at that time in my life I was too dumb to pick up on the signs and I wasn't at all sexually active then.

Very true. Sometimes when guys are being all macho I have to wonder why they're trying so hard.

I was talking about guys who've actually figured it all out, though. (Although I know a ton of guys probably haven't).

The reason I bring that up is you might want to survey your straight friends again about their feelings on gay sex... See which one bark the loudest about it. LOL.

Haha nah I'm pretty sure most of them are as straight as an arrow. They're really openminded and have had plenty of opportunities. They're just not interested in guys that way at all.

[Uneunsae]

OK...I have to warn you first I am probably from another planet with my thinking but these are my observations for what they are worth....

I think we all have different levels of male and female energy inside of us that has NOTHING AT ALL to do with our sexual orientation. I think people are addicted to images...as in...what appears to be versus what *is*... and so the images of male and female are burned into our brains from day one as well as the roles that are assigned each of the sexes...and I think this is where the problem begins and ends.....

I think sometimes a man can have a female brain...or soul...or body...or spirit...and pretty much every combination of one or the other to every degree possible. It is nothing you can see...you have to be able to feel it. I have always openly stated that I wanted a man who was at least 40-60 either way but closer to 49/51. I really like men who physically have female energy and emotionally have male energy and a nice 50/50 split mentally.....I like someone with a 50/50 soul as well....

Most men who have a female body are actually straight ...some people call them pussy boys...and pussy boys are usually straight men...it is a little more difficult to find a bi man and almost impossible to find a gay version of this guy....but I did

And then there are people like me. Third-gender. We're all sorts of fun.

[JimmyEcho]

I have to agree with Evan on this.
I know a lot of straight guys who in no way at all would ever think about having sex with another guy. They are called straight.
I know Gays that think the womans clam is disgusting, I mean these guys are Gay. Then there's people like me who go both ways. Now sometime I'm a little more attracted to women, and then down the line I'm more into the guys. (back and forth with different degrees of attraction)
This is called Bi-sexual. There are a lot of guys in Prison who don't and never will have sex with another guy, even if their doing a 10 year time.

[James]

There is an old saying, Men have sex because its there, women have sex cause they are in love, just saying, as far as straights go I would guess about 30% would have gay sex just cause it was infront of them

[East]

And then there are people like me. Third-gender. We're all sorts of fun.

I think sexuality is way more complex than anyone realizes.....

[Uneunsae]

Agreed. There's no such thing as a sexuality with "loopholes". If a guy goes after men for sex and gets it up with men, he's at least bi. I believe that the majority of people are at least a teensy bit bisexual but will never admit it due to hetero/homo phobia.

I myself have never been with a woman and don't get aroused by looking at them, but if I'm already turned on, I can fantasize about them and orgasm so I'm at least a little bit bisexual and am thinking about exploring that side of myself. It would take a very special woman for me to try it with her, though. But I am not romantically attracted to women in the least. That is, I could never imagine having a girlfriend or a wife.

As I've said before, sex is sexy.

[Virge]

It seems the guys with the MOST EXPERIENCE in this matter are unanimous so far.

[Uneunsae]

I think sexuality is way more complex than anyone realizes.....

Agreed. Being who I am, I've talked candidly with many guys and have heard all sorts of things.

Adding a bit to what some people have already said, those who vehemently oppose a certain sexuality are usually repressed. I think there have been some scientific studies on this. Someone post links if you have them.

[JimmyEcho]

If you think your attracted to women just a little bit.
Then maybe, to a certain degree you might be Bi
That's what bi is
These married straight guys who bottom with guys, well then maybe just maybe they might be bi to a certain degree, because that's what bi is.