When/whether to out self to straight guy
11-01-2014, 11:32 AM
ceez Wrote:Why can't I ever meet people like this, for me the second coversation is about how much they "hate faggots". :mad:
Just from my *limited* experiences with guys saying things like that.......(4 years in the marines + living in a state with less than one obvious openly gay person per 200 sq. miles).... I've learned that most of the new guys who use lines like that are making assumptions that I'm straight and are just trying to find something in common to talk about.
The subjects are real predictable. Sports. Cars & motorcycles. Drinking. Chasing pussy. Hating fags. It's just a ritual they've been conditioned to repeat.
The exceptions to that are easy to spot. If you're at a gym working out next to a guy with a bible tat on one forearm, a cruxifiction (spelled correctly) scene on his chest and a pair of praying hands on the other forearm, take his word for it when he says he hates fags.
Then there are the really interesting ones. They come out with the "I hate fags" line to make sure YOU don't think they are a fag because they're dealing with issues that make them think they might be. If you come out to them they do all sorts of apologizing and back tracking to get away from that line and try to buddy up. If you give them your phone number you can bet you'll hear from them again --- usually wanting to do something on the down low. It's up to you if you want to get involved with them beyond that point. There have been a few I wish I could have.
Whoa! I finally broke 2000 points. Someone wake up Andy and tell him to bring the booze and go go dancers.
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