Straight but....

[ShiftyNJ]

I'm kinda the flip. I romantically/emotionally only connect with other dudes but I have very little interest in their plumbing for its own sake. Personality, face and physique all play much stronger into my attraction and I have pretty much zero interest in random hookups/BJs. Not a moral/judgment thing; it just doesn't do anything for me. I remember clicking really strong with a particular guy (who IDs as straight, FWIW) and was then really kinda disappointed when he wanted to take it physical because I knew it would fuck up the friendship (and it did).

[EvenOlderButWiser]

to the Forum.

Im going to say something different to what others have said, but first off a question if I may.

How may times have you had oral sex from a female?

The simple fact is (and I know some guys won't agree with this) m2m sex is much easier to get that m2f sex.

As a result your exploiting that fact to satisfy your lust/curiosity/need. Have you returned the favour to the person blowing you?