Cheating : What is costs. What is destroys.

[Miles]

[Cuddly]

I'm sorry Virge :'(

You're strong. You'll get through this.

[BlueStar]

I'm damn sure of something, that I will never ever let any soul rip away what I've dedicated my life on building up.

I'm crushed to hear this big brother. I know it shouldn't revive my hatred but it does...

You've been there for me, so I should be here for you.

Love you big bro. Stay sharp!! xx

[meridannight]

I'm damn sure of something, that I will never ever let any soul rip away what I've dedicated my life on building up.

i will!

i will fall in love, and i will get involved and eventually i'll be in a position to have my heart ripped out if the guy so chooses. and i'll feel bad, i'll be torn, and i'll get over it. and most of all --- it will be worth it. the connection i share with a guy will be worth all the hurt and pain in the world. and i can take it.

[East]

i will!

i will fall in love, and i will get involved and eventually i'll be in a position to have my heart ripped out if the guy so chooses. and i'll feel bad, i'll be torn, and i'll get over it. and most of all --- it will be worth it. the connection i share with a guy will be worth all the hurt and pain in the world. and i can take it.

Beautifully written...and so much truth here...I love it.

[princealbertofb]

Well this will have silenced the King of the Word.
(((((((((((((((((((((Virge)))))))))))))))))))

[princealbertofb]

A broken heart takes time to mend, but by your own doing, not the perpetrator. A burned bridge is so for good reason. Pick up any strength remaining, move one, and don't look back. Once a pig, always a pig. My condolences.

I don't agree, people make mistake, sometimes other people help them make those mistakes...
If we had to go by that thinking, I would never have understood or forgiven my father for leaving the family. I've made my peace with the person he was, and the person he is. He broke my heart but I wouldn't want to change him for who he isn't. My parents' divorce has shaped a lot of what I think about relationships and how you have to work at them to make them good and healthy, at all times, but danger lurks in the alleys of complacency and routine.

[ceez]

I'm sorry but I want to kick his ass now you would think a psychologist would think of the risks before cheating. go out and spoil yourself.

[Rareboy]

Sending big hugs today.

[jimcrackcorn]

Dadgumit!!! Jay let his little head get him into trouble (big trouble).... He has damaged the relationship,, and like a broken vase, not all the pieces can be put back together again to make it as perfect as it once was.

I have a broken figurine that I decided to put back together & keep because I still loved it, and it made me happy. It wasn't perfect, but you couldn't see the crack unless you were willing to looking for it.

Metaphorically,
Jim