Anonymous Wrote:I have never met the guy, it's really complicated and to explain it fully it would be necessary to identify another person involved.
I have no romantic or sexual interest in this man. I don't want to con him or even necessarily meet him. I just want to find out who he really is, because I know he isn't who I have been told he is.
I have tried Google image search but it just leads me to the exact same photo that I already have. I know places and events he's been to but nowhere has he been named. I know this sounds weird and probably creepy but finding out this man's identity would solve a lot of other stuff.
Well apparently you learned
THAT bit of information from a source So why come here with a bag over your head and ask us?
Here is one scenario that might be in play.
I was brutally abused for most of my child hood - due to that I made up a whole new childhood that depicted a normal, every day family. Where is my mother you ask - Oh she is abroad you see - I think Germany or Finland now.
Father? Oh well he passed on about 5 years ago (which is why mother can not travel you see.....
THAT was a basic 'My life was' for half my adult life.
Now I just tell people, my mother was a practicing demon worshiping witch who was part of a cult and worshiped demons, by using children ion rituals - that includes the magic part and the sexual parts. Yeah there are rumors that a few babies were born - but never recorded.. Mother is dead now - That happened in 2007 - I learned about her passing in 2012 - Yeah we were that close. We can end at 'Ding Dong the Witch is dead - but the PTSD goes on and on and on....
If you look at my two stories (real and made up to protect the minds of the rest of the goddammed world) - you will find that I had a very good reason to report my where abouts and places and such as being different than when I was there, or totally not there at all - because you see, there are still members of that cult who could do me serious harm if I rock that boat. Then there is my generation of new adult members - and most likely they have already had kids who I never met - I still obscure parts of my life.
THAT is how I dealt with my childhood. That is also how I dealt with the ongoing problems of what could happen to me should I let out the wrong bit of information.
A lot of people use this similar method to protect themselves (trust me, nothing improves trauma if you have to tell everyone over and over again the particulars) or to protect others (Seriously do you really want to know which Mob boss I owe a minor debt too?)
My point: He or others lied - most likely for a very, very good reason.
Here is one potential and oft happening scenario - he is in witness protection. Dig deep enough you might get him killed.
Also - everyone has a past - that past is usually were it belongs - the past. Even minor embarrassments can do serious damage to a person's present. Thus we have our little white lies and secrets which keep us safe in the knowledge that we are safe - well until the dawn of the Internet, Facebook, Google and Homeland Security Eras - we are all screwed now.
Lastly, I dislike a person wearing a bag over their head when they want information on how to learn more about a person. For instance - it is possible that you are Blue (former Member) who is also Kate (current, but not posting (just stalking) member who has a rather long history of trying to find out who has been a victim of abuse and then single them out for more mind games and horrors best left untalked about.
Honestly, since there is this other cloaked person, this becomes even more complicated.
As to those who posted suggests: Allow me to suggest something - next time you want to suggest help along these lines, come back here I read what I just wrote again.
Your 'assistance' has a rather high risk of getting a person hurt - or killed.
How do I find out who someone is?
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