Hello everyone, I need help and am very confused.

[TheLonelyPerson]

I don't really seek a relationship for sex and stuff, more of a cuddling together by the fire on a cold night and laying in his or her lap on the couch, spending the rest of my life with my one and only, someone who will give me a reason to live and exist.

[jimcrackcorn]

Hi, Jim.

I must admit I have never been sexually attracted to women, I always saw porn as something almost disgusting too, while I think women are nice people, I would definatley take someone who would protect me and hold me any day, I am also a submissive I always back down and kinda want someone who would be dominant over me but also like I said kind, caring, understanding, loving, etc. Audiobooks I never thought of that though I do listen to creepy stories on youtube! another favorite pastime!

I love watching movies on Youtube. My eyes aren't what they used to be,, so I prefer to watch a movie instead of reading a book (smile)...

Nice to meet you,
Jim

[Insertnamehere]

Ah, so you are looking to be sheltered, cared for..and those things are mainly attributed as the doings of a man.

It makes sense.

[TheLonelyPerson]

Yeah, I always felt ashamed of myself because of this because I'm a man I'm supposed to be the strong, tough guy who will protect his woman from the evil of the world, but no I'm the woman in this situation and I'm starting to feel less and less ashamed each day. Youtube is great isn't it? I love watching vintage audio restoration video's people upload.

Thanks again!

[Insertnamehere]

You are not the woman.

You are you.

You have found, my friend, that gender roles can be a ridiculous missconception.

There is nothing to be ashamed of, nothing wrong with wanting protection, with liking men or women, with seeking romance and not sex, etc.

Each and every one of us is different and we all live different lives

Not every man out there will be able to give you that protection, and some women just might do that very thing! Because strict gender roles are not observed by everyone.

Be with whom ever gives you what you are looking for and makes you comfortable

[TheLonelyPerson]

I think I'm going to have to change my username, I like it here! Setting up my profile as best I can, I certainly feel a lot less lonely.

[Anocxu]

Yeah, I always felt ashamed of myself because of this because I'm a man I'm supposed to be the strong, tough guy who will protect his woman from the evil of the world, but no I'm the woman in this situation and I'm starting to feel less and less ashamed each day. Youtube is great isn't it? I love watching vintage audio restoration video's people upload.

Thanks again!

Not so fast!
I think you should spend a little more time getting to know yourself. . .And not worry too much about finding another person for an intimate relationship. . Not just yet.

No matter who or what you are..
You must be solid to endure a relationship. .

How about some good friends?
Do you have close friends that you could share these feelings with?

[TheLonelyPerson]

Not so fast!
I think you should spend a little more time getting to know yourself. . .And not worry too much about finding another person for an intimate relationship. . Not just yet.

No matter who or what you are..
You must be solid to endure a relationship. .

How about some good friends?
Do you have close friends that you could share these feelings with?

Sadly not I am a introvert, social anxiety and the sort has prohibited my ability to get out and meet people.

[Anocxu]

Sadly not I am a introvert, social anxiety and the sort has prohibited my ability to get out and meet people.

I understand. .
Well..
Take it day by day..
One issue at a time..
Good luck..

[TigerLover]

Yeah, I always felt ashamed of myself because of this because I'm a man I'm supposed to be the strong, tough guy who will protect his woman from the evil of the world, but no I'm the woman in this situation

Yup that rings some bells.

I have always wanted someone caring, passionate, loving, hugging, etc. In my life, I have been looking for these traits in women but I started pondering to myself having another man in my life with these traits someone who would hold me and hug me when I am sad, I have suffered with depression and anxiety for a while now since school because of bullying, I was always different to other kids and naturally, I was shunned from everybody,

Yup ringing even more bells

I have been extremely vulnerable, easily upset, I am a little bit pudgy and a huge computer nerd/

Now it's sounding like Notre dame cathedral up in here.

Did i get blackout drunk and write this post?

Welcome to GS my newest friend.