Young Guys, Older Guys - Age Preferences

[fenris]

I think a friendship can be risked in any case ...

[Student]

Well I am and have only ever been attracted to older men. I find them much more attractive physically, (have never found the bodybuilder physique particularly attractive - it just strikes me as arrogant and brutish however unfair that may be) and I just find them more interesting, well-rounded people. I like articulate and intelligent people too. They're just more mature and more of everything good. :tongue:

[Kiid]

I don't think age matters to me too much as long as me and the guy I'm going out with get along good. As long as there is an attraction too.

[SrChulo]

I have always had a thing for guys a bit older than I am. I don't even think i've hooked up with anyone younger than I am. My boyfriend is 10 years older than me. (I'm 23)

I try to process how I find myself thinking about him when he's not around. It seems that when I imagine him, I don't imagine us as being part of the same generation. (and... we're not, by the way). I don't see him as a father figure, but there is something about his age, knowledge, and adulthood that attracts me to him. I realize that i'm now a full adult, but I sure as hell don't feel it. I think I look up to him as the more knowledgable person. (even though i'm probably more book smart than he is).

It's interesting I guess. My previous boyfriend was 6 years older than me. Those 4 years difference between my bf and ex seem to really matter, because I used to think of my ex and I as in the same age group.

I'm just trying to make sense out of my vague thoughts. haha

[rofunk23]

For me I have an age range of 10yrs younger and 5 yrs older. I recent boyfriend was in the younger range of that and he was quite switched on for his age and had direction and goals, whereas many of his friends were 'clueless'. So if it works then it works

AJ

[mactsar]

When I was younger and thought only the young could be interesting, I made my way one afternoon to an all-male cinema that used to play gay porn in Boston. It was frequented by lanky basketball players, some just looking for a quick BJ, some to play, others, who knows? So there I was, sitting in the dark, when a lanky dude with blond hair stopped walking and stood near where I was sitting. Please, God, sez I. And he came and sat down next to me, and then his hand was on my knee, and one thing led to another. He was most skilled, and he had a hardon like glass that shot just as he was making me do the same.

And then the lights came on between movies. (The management liked to do that to discourage too much sex in the theater, as if anyone went there for any other reason.) His hair was white. He was 75 if he was a day. But he was hot, his touch had been sexy and skillful, and I learned something important that day. I learned not to narrow the focus of my interest, but to look further afield, not just for sex, but for conversation and more. I never saw him again, but I never see a lanky guy without thinking of him.

Would it have worked as a relationship? Who knows? I know guys who live in bliss but have 20 or 30 or even 40 years difference in their ages; I know guys who are the same age who can barely finish fucking before they can't stand the guy they just came with, the guy that was so hot 10 minutes ago.

Everyone's lover plays a different role in his partner's imagination or psyche. If it works, if both derive pleasure, why question it?

Except for that guy in Germany that advertised for someone who wanted to be dismembered and eaten. I wouldn't buy his cookbook, nor go to dinner at his place.

[Sil]

Mmmmm, dipping into some Freudian stuff here ^^

I like guys a little bit older as a rule, like maybe a few years or so... I would be attracted to a guy in the 40-50 age but as a long term thing it might raise a few eyebrows and I don't really want that. Solid, mature guys are sexy

I've dated and been with younger guys and it always seems to bring out the top in me, I dunno why; it's really down to physicality more than age. If a guy's slender, cute and smaller than me it just seems 'right'

[posterpicture]

Lol, it seems like I am the right type for you sil =))

I like younger guy or peer of the same generation. The problem with me is I have typical bottom form( even though I prefer to be a top), baby face, slender, small. And young guys just do not like older guys like that, so I become open minded and accept older guys.

[MegaFullbuster]

I prefer someone older than myself but not a lot older.
But I don't close myself to any possibilities.

[codis]

i prefer older men. I have been with guys from a range of 1 year older to 30 years older, and it doesnt make a difference i just need to be with someone who has at least seen as much as i have. More than anything i am attracted to intelligence and wisdom, and it seems the older a guy is the more of that he collects. i would date someone mmy age tho, but they'd have to be smart. if i knock on his head and hear an echo, idk if its gonna work... (tho i will say some dumb guys can be really cute and still make me swoon, specially with their laughs haha)