straight cuddle

[Genersis]

I hate the term straight acting.
There really is no such thing.

Straight acting= Gay guy who doesn't act at all, just behaves how he normally would, and most people can't tell said person is gay.

Could say non-stereo typical. But that sounds....meh.

I prefer NORMAL thanks. Just like people who are not classed as "straight acting"(Who ever makes THOSE desisions)

Oops! That came out of nowhere!:redface:
Apologies.
Rant over.

[Vigilias]

Why straight?

[Ledero5]

My advice is look on craigslist for people that only want to cuddle? I'm sure there are a lot of posts about the same thing there. No payment necessary, probably a married straight dude. But have friends in on it in case it turns out to be silence of the lambs with some guy wanting to wear your skin...

[eastofeden]

Want to pay straight guys to cuddle (cuddle only!) into at night.?
I am unsure how much to offer (50-100?) and how to go about it. Serious suggestions only please. I am a gay guy who has never been interested in sex or relationships, and have never had neither. However, I have a want of affection from straight guys and won't mind paying for this, as I need or want nothing deeper than a 'cuddle buddy'. Any personal experiences?

I feel sad reading this post ......you can always check out escorts and hire one of them with your specs but you really need to be careful about everything as it seems you "need" something that you can only give yourself but don't realize it yet...and in the meantime because you have this "need" you can be easily exploited and most likely a prostitute/escort will figure this out in two minutes.

I don't want to be mean but the best advice I can give you is the spend the money on a therapist who can help you better understand this "need" .

[Vigilias]

Okay, I'm going to enlarge on my last response.

Heart, I want to first let you know that I do not at all find your need strange or indeed creepy as others have. Each and every one of us shares the human need to be loved and liked.

When I read your post I began and I still am wondering if perhaps there is something going on with you that took place at an age when you were physically and emotionally vulnerable. I'm thinking some form of abuse.

I'm no expert but I've encountered similar once or twice.

What ever the case may be I hope you find someone who is willing and able to meet your needs on your terms.

[TuxSky]

I'm with the others on your proposal being kind of creepy. I don't know how you'll go up to a straight guy and ask him to cuddle with you for money. It depends on the guy and you'll have to be careful too, you never know if the guy you ask might punch you or something.

Why do they have to be straight?

[marshlander]

... Why do they have to be straight?

I'm not convinced that being straight is always the problem. More often it's how they think they should respond to being near a gay man that shows them up :frown:

[mooninleo]

Um I'm gay, and I actually prefer cuddling to actually meeting guys and hooking up for sex. I think if you ask for cuddlingin online sites, that you could probably find it. Why straight guys?? Am I not good enough??????? jk. -- Austin