03-06-2011, 04:01 AM
a real friend is someone who actually supports you, cares for you, and wouldn't do anything to judge you or put you down.
Huge mistake
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03-06-2011, 04:01 AM
a real friend is someone who actually supports you, cares for you, and wouldn't do anything to judge you or put you down.
03-06-2011, 10:36 PM
It's so unfortunate that so many people living in this world can only consider matters from their own shallow perspective, without even realizing that they are the very people who turn this world to such a miserable place to live, even for parents.
You need to be strong, as we all need to be. Find whomever you can talk to, and talk to them often. The best way to fight prejudice is not to give it a damn.
03-06-2011, 11:13 PM
Anonymous Wrote:Hello my friends! Last month I made a huge mistake!: cry: Hello there, I am deeply saddenned to hear that in the 21st Century people feel the urge to behave worse than animals... I know being in school is hard along with being gay but dont let them win which includes pushing you to the side... If they choose to ignore you you know the friendship was never ment to be... I would strongly suggest you ignore what they say and if you get any homophobic remarks ignore those as well... School life is a cruel life... Just because your gay does not mean that it is something to be ashamed of or deny yourself that freedom... In life the friends you loose will be replaced by better ones and as times go by your find that they will be the ones wanting to say sorry and regain friendship and your have the upper hand whether or not you choose to be friends or not to... Allowing these cowards yes cowards to rule your life is something id strongly recommend NOT doing... With regards to your parents.... How dare they tell you this is a phase!!!!! Does this mean that every 1 in 10 male on this planet is having a phase in life??? Just because you dont kiss a guy doesnt mean your not gay i mean how 18th century talk is that??? If i was in your boat and me being me I am very stubborn I dont give in REGARDLESS i would sit down and defend my ground.... I will upload a video from youtube that you can play to your parents when you get a moment and MAKE them listen to it... Now with your parents start with your mother and sit her down and say... Look I dont understand why you got a problem with me being gay??? I am still the same son you have always had and in life what gives you the right to tell me it is a phase that I am going through??? Every mother should love their child irrespective of race religion gender or sexuality... I would rather you knew than not know because in time I will develop into a full grown adult and my feelings will remain strong through thick and thin times.. This isnt a five minute phase and I am not going to be apologizing for the fact you may not get grandchildren from me because nature made me the way I am.. You havent done anything wrong neither has my father this is just me... What would you rather I do??? Hide away and never be myself??? If you choose to judge me now thats upto you but at the end of the day I dont intend on changing now ive come to accept myself for myself.... With regardless to your father just tell him to be man enough to accept you for you or FUCK OFF!!!!! This is the exact advice I gave to my father and my grandmother... In the end i decided to dis own my own father and tell him where to go... I am really sorry to hear that this has happenned to you.. I wouldnt worry too much about your friends just allow karma to be the judge of them because in time a piece of lifes puzzle will fall into place and those who judged you will return for sorrow.. Kindest regards and BIG HUGZ Zeon xx
03-06-2011, 11:15 PM
Go to here for the video
03-07-2011, 11:17 AM
It 's not a mistake. It 's a necessary step to take to learn who is your friend before it's too late too know.
03-07-2011, 10:21 PM
Very sorry to hear that your friend has let you down so badly and treated you so ill. Studies seem to indicate that attitudes are changing in Greece, but for those who are the butt of bullying I doubt those changes can come quickly enough.
What you did was risky, but very brave. You can't undo it, so you have to see it through somehow. I have found it helps me to get involved with campaigns and groups that support fairness for gay people. Misguided or not I do sometimes feel that I am trying to do something to help make things a little better. Maybe you would get strength for yourself by joining a group or campaign in your country? I assume you are not old enough to move away from home yet? If you were I would suggest that you do what many young people do in other countries and move to a place where you are likely to find more like-minded people, such as one of the big cities. I found these statistics on this Wiki page. Quote:The article doesn't give much away, but it does show that things are happening. Best wishes to you, especially for the strength to maintain your dignity and your determination in going through this tough time.
03-10-2011, 03:22 AM
It really sucks that things like this still happen. Just stay strong, and show them how much they suck.
03-10-2011, 01:33 PM
i'd beat there asses out if i were you. set there houses on fire. spit on their food, you know the drill. an eye for an eye is sometimes the only way to teach them haters.. just an opinion, though.
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