So how important is the "connection" when you meet somone?

[lokilol]

Meh I guess im too stressed on getting a boyfriend that I want it badly to work regardless lol, just as Beux said.
I guess I'll just be a bit more patient and maybe make some subtle moves next time we meet :biggrin:

Thanks for you replys , you guys are awesome

<3

Loki

[Bookworm]

Personally, I need that 'click' pretty early on when I meet a guy, its not something I can work on over a period of time, I usually know then and there. Thats just been my experience though, everyone is different.

[seeking]

to me, when i've already considered someone as a "friend", that i didn't feel any "connection" u mentioned to him, it won't work out in the future even we spend a long time together...so far

only people who haven't been considered as "friend", could probably "click" and go on.

give hints that u are willing to see him more, to know him more in the future.