Virginity

[Rowan]

On a serious note though,I wish that those with experience in bottoming could give advice to those of us who havent taken the plunge yet.I'm still in that "experiment in bath" phase and going nowhere slowly.

well, don't know from the other guys, but from my side i don't think there's much to tell.
It's a really weird and uncomfortable feeling at first, which takes a while to get used to and yes, it does hurt. I only started enjoying it a little after about the third time, but, slowly but surely you start enjoying alot more. But don't be too worried about it! No use stressing about it, it will come naturally.

[Shadow]

Leave it to Shadow to give sex tips on a virginity thread!On a serious note though,I wish that those with experience in bottoming could give advice to those of us who havent taken the plunge yet.I'm still in that "experiment in bath" phase and going nowhere slowly.Back to topic,I think its really cool that some people are keeping their virginity but for me,my virginity meant nothing to me and I can't even really remember losing it.

what MUST you think of me !!

But yeah - I did so on the basis that I think the boys that have posted and ARE still virgins are in a variety of different mindsets about it - most are clearly happy to wait until the right guy comes along, but I remember when I was a virgin I felt the same, BUT with the same stroke, I wanted my first time to be PERFECT, and that whole "Nope, that doesn't ... Oh my GOD you're not coming near me with THAT thing I hope ... where the HELL is ... Oh my ... Nope ... *clamps legs together*" thing which many people go through - the clumsy lovemaking thing ? Whilst AMAZINGLY cute and EXTREMELY funny, isn't always the best atmosphere for your first time, when everything should be purrrrrrrrrrfect ... rose petals, soft music, gentle kisses, a 24/7 hardon, the WORKS.

If anybody wants advice on any of these areas, then feel free to start a new thread, PM me or any of the other lads that prefer to give rather than to take - I'm sure Wouldlikemuscle would be willing to offer his input (although I realise I'm offering his services without speaking to him beforehand) ... but in any event, ask away and SOMEBODY will answer mile:.

In the meantime, as I said waaaaaay back, fair play for waiting - I personally believe you're making the right decision in doing so xxx

everybody !!

!?!?! Shadow !?!?!

[wouldlikemuscle]

If anybody wants advice on any of these areas, then feel free to start a new thread, PM me or any of the other lads that prefer to give rather than to take - I'm sure Wouldlikemuscle would be willing to offer his input (although I realise I'm offering his services without speaking to him beforehand) ... but in any event, ask away and SOMEBODY will answer mile:.

!?!?! Shadow !?!?!

I'm not sure if that comment makes me sound like a slut or not! lol :biggrin:

Of course I'll share my limited *coff* knowledge on these matters for those who want it... I think the bottom guy gets it easy really... or am I just being a lazy bum! (pun very much intended)

[Canucker]

I'm basically 16 (in one month), and I'm still a virgin.

Anyone watch the Luke & Noah story on the American Soap Opera "As the World Turns"? This really resonates with me...that story line.

Sometimes in the heat of the moment, one night stands can be great, and I'm open to that, but I want my first time to be important, special, and in a loving committed relationship.

I want to be out of the closet, and in a relationship with a guy I'm in love with (and he loves me in return), before I lose my virginity.

And I consider bjs to be "virginity" too.

[pocket_pilgrim]

hmmm is digital exploration (:biggrin a good idea for the first time? i'm asking because i hate it, but it supposedly relaxes that general area for... future interventions.mile:

[Rowan]

hmmm is digital exploration (:biggrin a good idea for the first time? i'm asking because i hate it, but it supposedly relaxes that general area for... future interventions.mile:

Nah, I think thats bull... no amount of " digital exploration " can prepare you for the first actual intimate situation, the first time another man touches you intimately.

[clontarf]

I lost my virginity to an ex policeman who I worked with when I was 20.
I am not a virgin (top or bottom) but I am now almost 100% passive.
I like the feeling of being with a masculine active man,

[Dan1089]

Huh?What do you mean by "digital exploration"?Is that code for finding gay sex tips online (which are rare) or finding an escort online inorder to lose your virginity?

[pocket_pilgrim]

Huh?What do you mean by "digital exploration"?Is that code for finding gay sex tips online (which are rare) or finding an escort online inorder to lose your virginity?

ha ha ha i was talking about using the things that all - or rather, most - humans have 10 of i never knew you were funny :p

[princealbertofb]

Huh?What do you mean by "digital exploration"?Is that code for finding gay sex tips online (which are rare) or finding an escort online inorder to lose your virginity?

Digitus in Latin, meaning fingers... Which we have ten of, which is why anything numeric that uses the digits: 0 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 is routinely called digital... But originally digitus meant fingers...

in French, les doigts
where you see the Latin root even though the T is silent (so is the plural S in fact) (= pronounce lay dwah).
une digitale is a fox-glove: a wild pink flower.

Maybe we should call Cadbury's fingers chocolate digits too?
digit (noun)
1 * any of the ten figures 0 to 9.
2 * (technical) a finger or toe.
[15c: from Latin digitus finger or toe.]