I need help from closet homosexuals. (I'm straight.)

[OrphanPip]

They castrate pedophiles?

Anyway, on another note I don't know if this thread is morbidly hilarious or just plain sad.

[Anonymous]

They castrate pedophiles?

They can't force you. But if you say you will rape a child they will, like sex change. But I'm scared I'll still want a woman cause of companionship, like a girlfriend/wife.

[Everhard]

Thanks for the advice guys. But I don't need that kind of advice. I could get it in any forum. I came to this specific forum for specific help.

I was deeply in love once. She was the first thing I thought about when waking up. And I just had to look at her all the time, lol. I did approach her, she gave me her number, then she turned me down cause I had social anxiety...

I want to stop wanting women. I've been thinking about saying that I'm a pedophile so they'll castrate me. But I'm scared it wont work.

I don't know what it is you want, if you're getting the same advice from every person (gay straight and bisexual) that you talk to, you may want to consider taking the good advice that everyone is offering you on a silver platter.

Whether you like it or not, human beings are social animals. You're not going to just erase your primal instincts, you really need to learn to manage your anxiety and get out in the world.

"No man is an island unto himself."

[Anonymous]

I don't know what it is you want, if you're getting the same advice from every person (gay straight and bisexual) that you talk to, you may want to consider taking the good advice that everyone is offering you on a silver platter.

Whether you like it or not, human beings are social animals. You're not going to just erase your primal instincts, you really need to learn to manage your anxiety and get out in the world.

"No man is an island unto himself."

Some things you just have to accept. A crippled man can not win the marathon. I can not get a woman.

[SlipknotRlZZ]

You're ruining your life, man. Alright, if you're that stubborn, go ahead, say you're a pedophile, chop your balls off, chop everything off even. Let's see you function like a zombie afterwards. You might as well get a lobotomy performed on you. It will ensure that the most you'd ever want from life is a bowl of fruity cereal.

[Beaux]

[COLOR="Blue"][SIZE="3"]Hiya, WOW, I dont know bout all that. If ya had come to me seeking advice on how TO GET LAID, then I could give ya a few pointers. But all this "I wanna go with out" nonsense......well, I'm drawing a blank--this is all new to me.

Are you sure you wouldnt just rather us tell ya how to get ya some? Think your odds are better if ya do.[/SIZE][/COLOR]

[fredv3b]

Thanks for the advice guys. But I don't need that kind of advice. I could get it in any forum. I came to this specific forum for specific help.

The trouble with advice is that you might not like it. The advice you have been given is good advice.

However thus is completely the wrong forum for what you want. No closet homosexual wants to be fully in the closet with no romantic or sexual contact, or even just honesty about their feelings their entire life. Most want to come out fully and lead happy fulfilled lives, a few are happy to lead a 'double-life' closeted in one but not the other you may find both of those here. There are closet homosexuals that want to be straight, they want to have a full life with sex and romance, they just want to want sex and romance with members of the opposite sex, you won't find any of those on this site. Try an ex-gay site for them.

You want to supress a normal, healthy part of yourself. The only people I know with a similar experience are Catholic priests.

Seriously the problem is not your sexuality, the problem is your social phobia. Get help with your problem.

[jbrowder24]

I still think you should consider a hypnotherapist before something drastic. Who is to say that the desire won't still be in your brain, even without the parts? You might not have the same horny urges but doesn't mean you'll rid of the desire for companionship

[OrphanPip]

They can't force you. But if you say you will rape a child they will, like sex change. But I'm scared I'll still want a woman cause of companionship, like a girlfriend/wife.

Oh come on people, he's clearly trolling.

Stop feeding him.

[HyperactiveWP]

First of all. I do realize and respect the fact that this is a gay site. That's why I wont introduce myself in the new members section. I'm only here for one question. Homosexuals have been abstinent from men for thousands of years. I assume there are members here that might keep their sexuality locked away.

I suffer from Social Anxiety. I cannot talk to anyone, yet alone courting a woman. I am even too shy to look at women. I have long since accepted that I'll be forever alone. I will not hire a prostitute. So I decided to stop wanting women. It worked for a while, I really didn't want any.

But now I want one so bad! It doesn't go away no matter what I do. Maybe there is a homosexual here that mastered to keep the desires at bay who could help me?

Please!

Have you considered talking to Phycologist ? I am suffering from adult ADD (Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder) which also cause depression, weird behaviour, social anxiety and sometime lack of confident. Attend support group and meditation will help. In worst case (myself) have to make medication in order to concentrate and work properly. It has never be late to talk to phycologist, I just found out that I have ADD last month (from my student record the physiologist believe that I have ADHD since I was little ). Many people don't know that they are suffering from some disorder, unless they come across someone how may have it or in my case YouTube and article.

I was once deeply in love with my senior but I did't have a gut to say it. There is no way you can keep your desires, it is only getting worst if you keep lying about it.
If you want to stop wanting women, considering joining buddha.

Wish you all the best :biggrin: