05-15-2011, 04:08 PM
Hello there,
My ex boyfriend was agrophobic nd i helped him overcome this... He suffered alot of anxiety attacks and was very very nervous about meeting new people... Now i do understand where your coming from however your not alone because regardless of sexual oprientation race or colour we all suffer some form of confidence issues... Yours however seems very very low when meeting people... I taught my ex boyfriend that in life when you go out that door and meet people begin with a Hi... Talk about alsorts of topics within life and force yourself to go out there dont feel trapped because inside you there is another smaller version of you that your not setting free as your punishing the outside you....
When you can whatever makes you feel scared for example just walking down the road to the shop.... For a week walk down the bastard road to the shop and get a newspaper or packet of crisps and then walk back... Force yourself to Not run but to take a steady easy pace whereby you can take in the surrounds around you... Dont feel that confidence will stop you because your not in a prison your as free as need to be and walking down the road isnt a criminal offence... I would recommend after a week of this then venture further and instead of the end of the road walk into town but this time for a different reason.... Walk into town buying a newspaper on the way and visit a local park whereby you can read the newspaper whilst enjoying the outside world... Build your confidence up this way and interact with local dog walkers and improve oin your social skills and only then and from that point onwards can you focus on going onwards and upwards to the point your ready to meet the right girl... Hoqwever dont let any girl knock your confidence as your end up starting all over again if you do...
If you want to join upto this forum feel free... We may be a prodominant gay forum but trust me your be safe ere for advice and whatnot... If anything goes wrong let agony aunt zeon know and she will ave to get the damn whip out
Best of luck mister and hope it goes well and ya report back to us
Kindest regards
Aunty Zeon x
My ex boyfriend was agrophobic nd i helped him overcome this... He suffered alot of anxiety attacks and was very very nervous about meeting new people... Now i do understand where your coming from however your not alone because regardless of sexual oprientation race or colour we all suffer some form of confidence issues... Yours however seems very very low when meeting people... I taught my ex boyfriend that in life when you go out that door and meet people begin with a Hi... Talk about alsorts of topics within life and force yourself to go out there dont feel trapped because inside you there is another smaller version of you that your not setting free as your punishing the outside you....
When you can whatever makes you feel scared for example just walking down the road to the shop.... For a week walk down the bastard road to the shop and get a newspaper or packet of crisps and then walk back... Force yourself to Not run but to take a steady easy pace whereby you can take in the surrounds around you... Dont feel that confidence will stop you because your not in a prison your as free as need to be and walking down the road isnt a criminal offence... I would recommend after a week of this then venture further and instead of the end of the road walk into town but this time for a different reason.... Walk into town buying a newspaper on the way and visit a local park whereby you can read the newspaper whilst enjoying the outside world... Build your confidence up this way and interact with local dog walkers and improve oin your social skills and only then and from that point onwards can you focus on going onwards and upwards to the point your ready to meet the right girl... Hoqwever dont let any girl knock your confidence as your end up starting all over again if you do...
If you want to join upto this forum feel free... We may be a prodominant gay forum but trust me your be safe ere for advice and whatnot... If anything goes wrong let agony aunt zeon know and she will ave to get the damn whip out
Best of luck mister and hope it goes well and ya report back to us
Kindest regards
Aunty Zeon x