When did you realise you were attracted to guys ?

[princealbertofb]

Erm, well I guess when I was young I knew I was different from my mates but just didnt know why:confused: then I went through a time of thinking it was just a phase and I would grow out of it n that was stupid.

It took me till I was around 20 to actually admit it and then 22 to do sommit bout it, so I am sorta new to it all:eek:

Now i just regret the years I missed really but al get ova it:tongue: jst need to find sum1 nice now...and my life will be complete:biggrin: lol

Why would it be stupid to think that it was just a phase when the whole of society is generally so heterocentred...?? That's the message you got and heard, I'm sure... There is no gay role modelling that says it's alright to just be yourself when you're gay... I'm not surprised. No, I see nothing stupid about thinking that way, at that period of your life.

[Dereck]

You do realise that answering isn't compulsory?

Oh I don't really know what that means.. but sorry.:frown:

[princealbertofb]

Oh I don't really know what that means.. but sorry.:frown:

Compulsory, means "obligatory"... so you don't have to answer if it's too private.

[marshlander]

Oh I don't really know what that means.. but sorry.:frown:

Compulsory, means "obligatory"... so you don't have to answer if it's too private.

I didn't like the thought of you being embarrassed, but telling us anyway

[andy]

I was about 6 when my mum's friend and her student doctor bf took me out to the theme park. He was the first guy I sorta had a crush on... bit weird when you're 6 as you don't really undestand what is going on!

[edtracker]

My first crush was in 7th grade, Tom Laucik. A pain in the ass, not literally - yet, but damn good looking. Round beautiful face with the cutest freckles I'd ever scene. But, I digress. Anyway, looking back, though, I remember kind of looking at other boys since about third grade, but, not really realizing what was going on! I sure was good at tetherball, though!

[woodchip50]

i know i always had a sort of thing about guys. but.

the first time i actually realised i liked a guy was when i was 11/12 ish

had a really vivid fream about a guy, who wasn't even that attractive, lying in bed with me. naked. rubbing our bodies against eachother and holding each other. oddly i was seeing this from the celings perspective so i could see me too.

i woke up and was SO wierded out by that!
not by the guy so much, more so that i dreamt about me.

then a few days later i realised i had dreamt about a guy and me, and i just thought something along the lines of 'sssshhiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiittt!'

[Dereck]

Ohh. Sorry. I understand now.

I didn't like the thought of you being embarrassed, but telling us anyway

[jmfoster]

Um... I think you lot realised you were gay when you also realised you like to sleep around and be shallow wich is bascailly seems to be the 'rules' of gay society.

[fjp999]

Um... I think you lot realised you were gay when you also realised you like to sleep around and be shallow wich is bascailly seems to be the 'rules' of gay society.

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