Sex issues

[toomuch45]

hello welcome

i really don't think its fair that hes doing that to you
i say you should break up with him

L-O-V-E
HELL NO IT ISN'T EASY

[tweeting]

thanks for all your advice

You know i love this man so much and he is just selfish in this sexual respect. he is hot as hell and excuse my language here but he has a wonderful package between his legs. It is just he is spitefull. I need sexual fulfillment. You know I even told him if he does not have sex at least once a week then I will seek sexual fulfillment outside the relationship. Truthfully i cant really do that, im very faithful, i just said that. but still he does not let me touch him.

[princealbertofb]

It doesn't sound right to me... There must be a way to confront this. If he prefers to masturbate, is it something to do with how he gets sexual gratification? Do you think he thinks you're a bad lover, and don't understand how his body reacts? Do you think he's a bad lover ? (it sounds as if you do). These things being so important in a couple, I'm wondering whether you wouldn't be happier with someone else who can requite your passion. Is there a big age difference between you? How long have you been together? Do you live in the same house?

[tweeting]

He has not told me im a bad lover, im a very good one. I please him when i get the chance when he permits me to touch him. I know how to please :-) been living together for 2 years. there is a two year age difference between us .he likes it when we do have sex but it must be on his terms everytime i try to start touching him he stops me and says its his body and he will allow when he allows.

[Ceruleaan]

Just move on buddy, you definitely deserve better and behaviour like that on his part is simply unacceptable!

[princealbertofb]

He has not told me im a bad lover, im a very good one. I please him when i get the chance when he permits me to touch him. I know how to please :-) been living together for 2 years. there is a two year age difference between us .he likes it when we do have sex but it must be on his terms everytime i try to start touching him he stops me and says its his body and he will allow when he allows.

Then I'm afraid he's a manipulative control freak... and I don't think it's going to work, ultimately. You probably need a relationship that is better balanced.

[Story]

Then I'm afraid he's a manipulative control freak... and I don't think it's going to work, ultimately. You probably need a relationship that is better balanced.

Yes, this, I don't actually get what he means "it's his body" care to elaborate? It sounds like he's using you for sex but denies you the intimacy you deserve, you must take action or else he will continue to treat you poorly

[hellanicus]

It sounds like you should break it off. Good looks and a big dick are nice but men and women have been finding out for as long as humanity existed that that won't make us happy. Look he's not giving you the attention you need and that sucks. I for one would be happier with an average guy who was happy to be with me and was affectionate than a male model who treated me like a cuckold, and I think you would be too. You only get one life do you really want to spend it with him if this is how he will always treat you?

[GroverC]

A difference in sex drive may be at the heart of this. Negotiate rather than demand.

[tweeting]

It sounds like you should break it off. Good looks and a big dick are nice but men and women have been finding out for as long as humanity existed that that won't make us happy. Look he's not giving you the attention you need and that sucks. I for one would be happier with an average guy who was happy to be with me and was affectionate than a male model who treated me like a cuckold, and I think you would be too. You only get one life do you really want to spend it with him if this is how he will always treat you?

Did i mention he has a lovely nature(not talking about sex) he is a great man, but it is just the sex issue that is problem.