08-14-2011, 03:29 PM
If you've truly enjoyed a girlfriend and are attracted to women, then you are most likely bisexual. You say this guy is a friend. You should try to chat with him about how you are bi but a bit confused and new to it all, and want to be discreet about what happened/happens. Perhaps he'll be a good friend to explore with secretly but it's best to be honest because if he is expecting to end up going out on dates in public and you're not ready for that, he could feel hurt. But maybe he is just after someone to have a good time with as well and not caring about that - you still don't want him assuming you're out when you're not. I wouldn't worry too much about what girls would think if they found out though - most younger ones wouldn't care these days, and the ones that do are probably prudes you woudn't like dating anyway.