Top bottom determined by penis size?

[BlackCat]

Is this how the position is determined in relationships? Sorry guys, still a virgin here :biggrin:

[OrphanPip]

No, it's determined by what people want to and are willing to do and how they work that out between them.

[chillythoughts]

wow, not at all. like above poster said, its what people want and enjoy.

[Genersis]

Definitely seems like it is in the porn industry.

As for everyone else.
They do it which ever way 'round they want to do it.
Whatever way round that may be.

[oldster]

well in my house my lover told me you are the fucker and i am the fuckee.
but it changes somr times as to who wishes to pleasure their partner and what he wants tto do
with ub balanced aragements it normaly stayes the same no switching because one lover is more worried about his pleasure than giveing pleasre to someone else just many reasons and many diffrent anwsers.
and some times you may get surprised the the time is right and you just feel your leggs weaken and fall into thoes manly arms and dosent matter a bit whoes on topsince you feel weak as a kitten in that persons arms and just swoon and he gets his way not fair but pleasnt

[Almac]

No, it's determined by what people want to and are willing to do and how they work that out between them.

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That's so true, but also what comes natural to the couple, some just are naturally more passive than others in lovemaking.
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[pellaz]

... some just are naturally more passive than others in lovemaking.

the more aware lover should set up his partner to enjoy his body.

Is this how the position is determined in relationships?

not everything has to be defined in a relationship for it to work. if you are so jonsing to be the top (and sometimes you have to ) get your partner off to start with.