stuck on a guy I can't have

[jacklondon]

Hello.
I'm stuck on a guy since months. he is my ex girlfriend's best friend.
i thought i did a step forward and moved on, but i was wrong.
I knew this guy trough my ex gf.

we broke up last august when I told her everything. she was very supportive. and we broke up as friends.
Then she moved away from here for a job she already got before knowing me.

in september her friend invited me to his house warming party and asked to stay overnight. we slept together in the same bed.
just slept. i just put my head on his shoulder and i felt so right there.
after that night nothing happened. he avoided all my messages.

i know he likes me because he flirted with me, but when i told him i liked him he never said anything. one day i texted him again and he replied he just wanna be a friend because he didnt want screwed his friendship with my ex girlfriend
i met another guy later, but it's not the same, i want still him. HELP!!!!

p.s he has a new boyfriend now.

[Nick9]

Hi and welcome!

I don't think you can do much, if he has a bf now. Try to ask your ex-gf to arrange some trip/party/going to a club for all three of you (four of you) and don't... well... hit on him, keep it light and friendly so that you don't push him away.

[jacklondon]

my ex gf moved to Hawaii. I am in north east. lol
a friend told me to show up at his door with the excuse to show him the little dog i just adopted

[pellaz]

help me out, lost on whos friends with whom.

no one has indicated why they are doing these things?

[Nick9]

LOL I guess, now I am stuck too. Well... what about going to some club or bar etc. he likes and goes to regularly and waiting if he approaches you as the first?

[Nick9]

no one has indicated why they are doing these things?

:biggrin::biggrin::biggrin::biggrin: Sorry, yeah, life would have been much easier if people talked their problems through, wouldn't have?

[jacklondon]

me in love with my ex girlfriend's best friend who is gay

[Nick9]

my ex gf moved to Hawaii. I am in north east. lol
a friend told me to show up at his door with the excuse to show him the little dog i just adopted

haha, you have edited your post and now I am lost too. So, it's a good thing, no? He is interested in seeing you.

[jacklondon]

i dont know if he is interested in seeing me, since the last time that we saw was at his party last september!

[pellaz]

so the girl was a a straight relationship with you?
straight or hag, is she still talking to you, does she understand the gay stuff?

if maybe possibly yes to this stuff, use the girl.

seems your not appreciating what you already have tho.