01-08-2011, 10:23 PM
I supose I'v also had these thoughts. Then again can't say I cared much about them, and quite happily brushed them off. Maybe I'll think more about it if the probelm arises, but for now I am quite content.
Anyhow think of the positives. I'm pretty sure he would still alow you to come around, and I'm pretty sure his morther has doughts about you which arnt concenred about your sexuality, no offense... maybe that just my friends mothers about me? ^_^ and every one gossips. it's a sad fact but no matter what you do it'll be talked about most likely so best just to not care, or makesure what people gossip about is stuff you like to potray about yourself...
If you found some one you would want to spend the rest of your life with, trust me, it doesn't matter what people think, apart from the one you love... so if people don't want to turn up, so be it. At lease you've found someone to love and love you back
anyways, not the best at explaining thing... and duno if this is helpful but yea... just think about it fully and truthully... it isnt so bad
Anyhow think of the positives. I'm pretty sure he would still alow you to come around, and I'm pretty sure his morther has doughts about you which arnt concenred about your sexuality, no offense... maybe that just my friends mothers about me? ^_^ and every one gossips. it's a sad fact but no matter what you do it'll be talked about most likely so best just to not care, or makesure what people gossip about is stuff you like to potray about yourself...
If you found some one you would want to spend the rest of your life with, trust me, it doesn't matter what people think, apart from the one you love... so if people don't want to turn up, so be it. At lease you've found someone to love and love you back
anyways, not the best at explaining thing... and duno if this is helpful but yea... just think about it fully and truthully... it isnt so bad