Penis Size

[synonymous]

Check 'Unhung Hero'.

It's a doc about this straight guy who proposed to his girlfriend in a
basketball game in front of everyone and then got rejected. Later on his
girlfriend tells him she rejected him because of his penis size.

[Sylph]

My opinion, is that men, now recently gay men in particular put so much stock in their sexual abilities and stuff that doesnt really matter to some people.

Personally I don't see a man and think, "omg can he fuck and lobodomize me at the same?"

It just isn't every one's top priority.

Just make sure its clean, and well maintained down there.

Really, I don't see why people say they're smart and civilized and this that or the other , but so often obsess and make bigger than necessary requirements about sex.

Remove sex from you brain some times. I know you're a guy, but gurl

[jaxc]

How important is it to gay men when it comes to choosing partners?
I ask this because my own endowment is on the small size and for me it is a great embarrassment because it is not big and thick. It is more like small and pathetic.
It brings up a lot of anxiety in me about what if I and another guy do get close enough to have sex. Will

hey, some guys want more cushion for the pushin:biggrin:

[jaxc]

Once I watched a program on TV and there was a chubby guy and his boyfriend was very slim. Some people are into bigger guys, it depends. You know, there are even special clubs for so called bears. However, weight is something you can change. Regarding your small penis I would never leave anyone because of size and I think that most people won't. So your future can be bright, don't worry, you're just 21

Is it possible to find a link to that program or at least remember the name? sounds like something I might be interested in, please and thank you:biggrin:

[Woollyhats]

I hope I didn't response to this before...The responses on the second page about not being a victim are more important than the direct answer to your question... I would possibly recommend learning about the language of a creator vs. victim... I was taught it in an elective I took this year...

http://www.collegeofsanmateo.edu/bsi/doc...nguage.pdf

Penis side is tricky for me because it's never a turn on, but could potentially be a turn off. If it's 1cm long I'm not going to like it. If it's 10 feet long I'm going to be scared of you. Normal is fine.

There are people who like both of the above. My opinion is subjective in this area, not objective. This means I can't say what is good or what is not, only what I like personally. There is literally a person out there that likes anything... which is inspiring or terrifying depending on how you look at it.

I hope this stops being an issue for you soon.

[ChadCoxRox]

With your birthday coming up why not plan a gift to yourself. Less "you" and more "others"? Research local LGBT resources, find a social function organized just for LGBT support and attend or become involved.

If no one else knows you intimately as you've portrayed here then nobody will have a chance to either challenge your self-imposed barriers/excuses or support you through your quest to heal some of your "brokenness" and chart a course toward a happier, healthier you.

My main point is that what I see you doing is an attempt to hold a premise that you can change or fix yourself alone. That, my friend, is the antithesis of the relationshipping you crave.

[ChadCoxRox]

I hope I didn't response to this before...The responses on the second page about not being a victim are more important than the direct answer to your question... I would possibly recommend learning about the language of a creator vs. victim... I was taught it in an elective I took this year...

http://www.collegeofsanmateo.edu/bsi/doc...nguage.pdf

Penis side is tricky for me because it's never a turn on, but could potentially be a turn off. If it's 1cm long I'm not going to like it. If it's 10 feet long I'm going to be scared of you. Normal is fine.

There are people who like both of the above. My opinion is subjective in this area, not objective. This means I can't say what is good or what is not, only what I like personally. There is literally a person out there that likes anything... which is inspiring or terrifying depending on how you look at it.

I hope this stops being an issue for you soon.

Great reference!

[Bluelight]

From another perspective, I heard that the ancient Greeks thought big penises were ugly, that's why all their naked statues have modest endowments

[synonymous]

Except for Priapus, he has a forever boner and a penis half his body
size

[Drkmcnamara]

Priapus is Roman though right? Not Greek