Maybe I'm over thinking this.

[ras1313]

Thank you for your advice. I'll keep that in mind

[southbiochem]

Job and school? Rather obvious and not at all unusual that he's tired all the time.

If it is affecting you, talk to him about it.

I can tell you won't start a fight over it, so that's why I suggest that.

"I know you're tired with work and school but......" something like that.

It's all about putting it out there and then enjoying the moments you get to spend with him.

Welcome to GS

[Woollyhats]

Starting a new job AND going to school would make a lot of people tired.

Maybe it's really that simple.

Try talking to him in a supporting way about this, you might end up relieved you did.

[loserguy]

I agree with most of the other posters: communication will only help and listen to what he says!

[azulai]

My bf and I are both working and in grad school. What has worked for us is having date mornings :biggrin: after one or both of us would fall asleep before anything fun could happen. It's just dedicated "us" time once a week no excuses. Might be something you could discuss with your bf.

We're both excited that starting this July I'm going to be only in school full time and he is in his final year of grad school!

Best wishes!

[ChadCoxRox]

My bf and I are both working and in grad school. What has worked for us is having date mornings :biggrin: after one or both of us would fall asleep before anything fun could happen. It's just dedicated "us" time once a week no excuses. Might be something you could discuss with your bf.

We're both excited that starting this July I'm going to be only in school full time and he is in his final year of grad school!

Best wishes!

I totally LOVE reading about life investments! Best wishes on your efforts paying off in wonderful and maybe even unexpectedly glorious ways!!