Thinking about leaving bf

[Jake]

dude, you have good points... but you don't have to be so harsh to him

Well I for say doesn't find him being harsh... I call it a reality slap. To the OPS, an online boyfriend will never replace a physical boyfriend. So you might wanna say an acquantaince. Now you may have spoken with him online for a year and you may feel comfortable, but trust me little dude you should have had some dates before calling him a boyfriend. And no you are not being selfish, at 18 he needs to learn to deal with his problems. Are you the only guy he knows? I doubt it. Doesn't he have family? He's 18, does he work, does he go to school. Does he know what it is to make groceries or even cook. And do you? All this will blow to your face when the time comes... I'm sure he has other solutions. Now the only thing I see from this, is that you both want sex, but in between sex there's a lot of other things happening.

Were you truly ever considering moving with him? He's a virtual friend little buddy. He's not your boyfriend until you two have connected together (and I don't mean sex). Be very careful with this.

[Adam]

Listen to Iceblink he IS NOT being harsh. You've never actually met this person AND you're already uncomfortable with the "weird" sex stuff he talks about online. Do you know exactly why his family threw him out? And if he could support himself he could find his own place, are you prepared to support him?
I dated my BF for a year before we moved in together, and even then there were huge adjustments.
Don't do this - you have absolutely NO IDEA what you would be getting into.

[buckeyeboi004]

yea, I agree with you guys... he is also not responding. I wonder if this is true?

[Jake]

yea, I agree with you guys... he is also not responding. I wonder if this is true?

Buck my buddy... on this forum people comes from different part of the world. Per example here in MTL, Canada it is 1:13am and I'm in bed with my laptop while my baby he's sound asleep, if he was awake I wouldn't reply fast either because you know why... Some will respond and some will never. I can be gone off GS for months and one day I decide to come back and be active. There's life in between the Internet session LOL.

[buckeyeboi004]

no... I don't know why... can you explain? haha

I got you.

[Iceblink]

He is also under 50 posts so his posts might be moderated and withheld.

[Borg69]

Add me to the list of "don't even consider doing this". He could be a drug dealer/user, thief, abusive, carrying std's he doesn't mind sharing... you just don't know anything about him.

[Jake]

He is also under 50 posts so his posts might be moderated and withheld.

That's actually most plausible didn't check how many posts he had

[Arkansota]

I met my boyfriend online and he is basically my dream man. But sometimes it doesn't work out that way. You need to get to know him IN PERSON and get to know him well before you make any decision on this matter.

[Jake]

no... I don't know why... can you explain? haha

I got you.

Sure I'll tell you how we make cherry pies at 1am LOL... Want the recipe. You dirty mind lol. If he was awake I was planning on playing cards LOL