Sex issues

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Yes, this, I don't actually get what he means "it's his body" care to elaborate? It sounds like he's using you for sex but denies you the intimacy you deserve, you must take action or else he will continue to treat you poorly

What he means when he says it is his body is this

I would try to touch him sexually and romance him then he will reject me and say it is my body and i dont want you to touch me.

He can be very selfish in this way,

[fredv3b]

How does he behave if you try to give him just a hug and a cuddle, nothing sexual?

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How does he behave if you try to give him just a hug and a cuddle, nothing sexual?

the only time i get a hug is when i either ask for it or i hug him then he hugs me back

[Toppo]

thanks for all your advice

You know i love this man so much and he is just selfish in this sexual respect. he is hot as hell and excuse my language here but he has a wonderful package between his legs. It is just he is spitefull. I need sexual fulfillment. You know I even told him if he does not have sex at least once a week then I will seek sexual fulfillment outside the relationship. Truthfully i cant really do that, im very faithful, i just said that. but still he does not let me touch him.

Hey Dude. I can understand your situation. I have a fairly similiar problem to what you have been going through. I will be watching this topic closely as I've been looking for an answer myself. Looking to starting a topic myself.

[princealbertofb]

Er, Donovan, I can respect the fact that it's his body and that he doesn't like to be touched, but in that case, with you needing more touch and more hugs and bodily contact, it's not a relationship that works that well. I don't know how much you've discussed this with him, but maybe he
is loathing of being touched goes deep down to some childhood trauma, which he might be having trouble negociating as an adult.

You two might benefit from some therapy. Is that a possibility? Otherwise, if it can't be negociated or discussed, then it might just be selfishness or manipulativeness. I wouldn't like to judge before knowing the facts. Some people are not touchy, it's true, and need their personal space, which doesn't make them nasty people, of course. But if you are the cuddly type, it's either a question of finding a compromise together or you going to look elsewhere. It's getting to a point now, since you are discussing it openly with strangers (us) that it's becoming a major obstacle to your life together. I think he needs to hear that. If he prefers to jerk off, well maybe he would be happier being on his own (I'm just exaggerating the score, so you can see where I'm coming from). In a relationship, if both don't try to make it work, it eventually breaks down.