Are you into men much older than you, or much younger than you?

[LJay]

Welcome, Peni Slicker.

I was too naive to let the older guys go to it. Poor me.

[jimcrackcorn]

If I was put into a position where I would be dating again,,,, I'd be looking for someone who's in their 80's or 90's.

They must be STD free, HIV negative, clean, no games, very discrete,,, and willing to host.. Send stats & pic for reply.

I have craigslist fantasies,
Jimerooo

[Anocxu]

The older guys had more experience and staying power!

Maybe you haven't met the right younger guys..?

[Anocxu]

Don`t get me wrong i had some great times with guys my age but i loved being looked after.

Like getting a bowl of ice cream after sex?

[Anocxu]

Don`t get me wrong i had some great times with guys my age but i loved being looked after.

Or cash?...
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[strider65]

well, speaking for myself, I am attracted to guys close to my own age. Have more in common... same sort of way of looking at the world, I guess.

but that's not always true for everyone. I've known a lot of successful couples who complement each other even if they are not necessarily the same age.

I've also seen a lot of couples where the older guy has money and the younger guy does not and stays with the older guy long enough to exploit him, meets someone his own age he has more in common with, and dumps the older guy. which if the old guy wasn't trying to date a guy for looks instead of depth, he might not have found himself in that situation in the first place.

whatever works for people, man. I myself am attracted to guys close to my own age.

[Aquarius]

Is there any example where the younger guy was the more successful / wealthy one?

[strider65]

I'm sure there is man. Nothing is cut and dried and people are different.

just making a general observation from my own experience, which may or may not be someone else's

[strider65]

and to be candid, Aquarius, many years ago I was well considered good looking. I worked briefly to pay the bills as a high priced escort. I'm not proud. But it did pay the bills.

I had a very rich client who had been ripped off repeatedly because he insisted on keeping a harem of 19 year old guys when he was in his 50s. They stole his credit cards one night and took off in his Porsche.

I on the other hand gave him a hug and listened to him and rocked him back and forth in my arms. Money does not make for happy people. It sure as hell helps, but some of the most unhappy people I've met have had lots of money.

just my 2 cents

[thawoods]

...Definitely older, but it can depend on how "mature" a person looks.