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I'm thinking about heading to this 18+ gay bar/club next month. I'm going on their drag night where famous drag queen Willam Belli will perform. I'm a little new to the whole club scenes and even party scenes so i could use a little advice. I know never take drinks from people ( could slip something in) or stay out too late by yourself, But what other things should i be aware of?
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I am the demon you're afraid to meet
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That makes you "New Meat"
So Virgp..
I'll tell you like I would tell a good friend that I care about. :-P
*You show up alone ..
*You go home alone..
*Avoiding conversing with guys that are way too drunk.. especially when they are very hot! <--- trust me.
* exchange Facebook info not your phone # (if anyone asks..)
* Do not forget ..you are in an alcohol fueled environment . Everything is fun and "everything is temporary"
*This one is important..*
I learned this from Working in night clubs.
*> The Cluster Rule <*
If you see a cluster of people leaving when you are about to. Wait 15 minutes before you drive home.
Chances are a few of those in that group are too tipsy to drive safely.
No matter how late you get home..
You let us know how it went!
Or i'll report you missing..
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It would be good if you could have a friend with you when going to your first gay club. It can be a bit overwhelming when the club is hopping at full speed and folks are getting their freak on.............
Remember,,, just because someone finds you interesting and befriends you,, it doesn't mean you are obligated to sleep with him. And,,, whatever you do,,,, don't accept a ride from a stranger, you could wind up in the middle of nowhere -- walking.... (been there, done that)...
Sometimes it helps to get to the club early and get the feel of the place before it gets really busy. Plus you get a better chance of picking a good seat to watch the show..
Hopefully it will be more tame than the ones I used to frequent back in the 70's..
Good luck & enjoy yourself,
Jimerooo
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This is very interesting, I am actually learning about this stuff.. Yes, Have fun! That's the most important thing and avoid Diva drama, they're never ending. Lol
[MENTION=23058]IanSaysHi[/MENTION] looks like you're speaking from a personal experience... Haha
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